Perrigaud, yes, you can brainwash people without them letting you. You're either ignorant, or in denial. If the CIA seems to think its possible I'd be inclined to agree, they'd know about that kind of thing, now wouldn't they?
Or maybe you haven't talked to a program child before. That wasy the most painful experience I ever had. Or maybe you still are one.
Cleopatra2U - I get that too. There are so many taboos and subjects you "never speak about" (or even think about!) between some parents in some sulb-cultures/religious denominations, and their children.
My friends mom (who talks to me a lot too) is much, much better at communicating with her kids than most other parents i've ever seen. The funny thing is, she seems to not have really grown up. Sure she pays the bills and makes them do their homework and drags them to school but she still has fun, kids around, tells jokes, and generally acts like someone my own age. I'm turning 20 in December.
When I told her about this issue after her daughter read in some teen magazine about Mountain park, she was totally horrified and in disbelief. But the more I got to know her the more I realized she had a true bond with her kids and wouldn't let it be seperated by some program, and she *gasp!* actually told them about things like sex, drugs, paying bills, jobs, how the opposite acts, etc.
I think it comes down to this hierarchial culture where topics are deemed inappropriate to think or talk about, that creates these scisms between the child and parent. I know parents who can't even say the "m-word" to their teenage children and freak out when they have puberty, and generally ill-prepare their kids for things like having free time, making their own decisions, paying bills, and doing things on their own volition, not because they were told to.
When there isn't a hierarchy in everyone's mind, and you can talk about anything you want, you create a bond that can't be broken by irrational fears and lies from program salesmen. Yeah, her kids might curse or disagree sometimes, but they have a real bond, are anything but naive, and can certainly think for themselves.
Oh, and just for the used-god salesmen who might come up, they're a very secular family and they're doing JUST fine, thank you! None of them are sleeping around, doing drugs, getting into fights... or taking crap from anyone :grin:
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