I think parents are willing to admit that they made a mistake. However, most of the placements made by the parents on ST, after they have carefully researched the programs, are NOT mistakes. This does that mean that every kid emmerges emotionally healthy or that the kid doesn't struggle again in the future, but very few of the placements made in the last few years by ST parents have been viewed as a mistake. A few kids have had to change programs, and a few parents, including myself, have not been happy with all aspects of a program, but there have been no reports of abuse, contrarty to what you want to believe on this site.