On 2005-01-11 16:03:00, Paige wrote:
"Amanda is fine. She did not run away and again you are just showing your lack of knowledge.
Amanda came to me and told me her plans to move out and get an apartment with a friend of hers. I was not thrilled with this but could not talk her out of it. She has moved out. She did not run, she was not taken in the middle of the night by anyone and believe it or not she has a job and is doing well with her job.
I had dinner with her the other night and she is fine. Would I prefer for her to be here with her brother and I - Yes but at least we can see her and talk to her whenever we want to. If you will remember she was not aloud to spend time with her brother or talk to anyone else in the family so this is an improvement and she is not in that God forsaken place called the ALA with all of those fruitcakes.
She is almost 18 and looking to make her own way. Will she make mistakes - probably. I still love her and she is still a member of my family. Children do grow up and leave home. I am sorry if you have been misled. We are all fine.
By the way did you know that the Bomba's (the directors of the ALA Mexico facility are listed as fugitives in Mexico? I will try to post the article from the newspaper in Guadalajara.
Get a life and stop bashing a kid you know nothing of. And thank you for your prayers.
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Just because you say it, doesn't make it so. You and I both know you are worried about the legal ramifications of her running from you. If you have any sense at all, you'd have to be worried. Afterall, you are one of the ones behind kidnapping her.
You can fool most of the people, most of the time, as evidenced by your support (something you appear to have in common with the looser of the Presidential race), but you cannot fool those who really know what is going on.
As far as staff members of ALA, your bringing that up is nothing more than a tactic to deflect the heat from yourself.
I think what this whole drama boils down to, is you are jealous of her family, of which you are really not a part of.
I went to ALA when it was in Mexico. I saw her in Mexico. Her mom came down to visit her, contrary to the trash you posted about her not doing so.
I don't ever expect you to admit it to me, or anyone else, especially yourself, but, it is evident, you are jealous.
Your rantings sound like that of some grade school girl. That is a normal deflection. Rather than deal with your own insecurities and relationship voids, it is easier for you to pick apart others.
The lot of you sound like play ground bullies. When others don't agree with you, you call names and gang up on those who don't agree with you. Very sad indeed.
Bottom line, what you still have not grasped, is the fact that YOU ARE NOT THE PARENT!!!! It was not your right to interfere with the parents and their choice of how they dealt with THEIR daughter. It would appear that you have never had any of your own children. I am willing to bet that you aren't in a stable relationship either. (Its called deductive reasoning).
I feel sorry for you. It is evident there is no joy in your life. You appear to be a miserable person. I truly feel sorry for you. Not only have you deceived others through your drama, but you have deceived yourself into believing that your actions are acceptable. They are not.
I am willing to bet her family has never done anything to harm you. You are just jealous. And you don't care who you hurt, because it is all about you.
Did you ever stop to think how your actions have negatively impacted many people? Do you even care how much your actions have caused others to be hurt? Can you respond to that without using the word "I"?
It is not all about you. You have made numerous references about the brother. Do you have any feelings for the sisters? Again, do you care about anyone but yourself?
I didn't expect that you would be a big enough person to admit you were wrong. She ran from you. You can call it what you want, but she ran.
Before you get all bent out of shape, remember, you started this whole drama. Maybe next time you will stop and think before airing your dirty laundry in a public forum.
The more you try to defend her and defend your illegal actions, the worse you make yourself look. Anyone with half a brain can see through it all.
