Wow, everyone is so sensitive today. Its human nature to want to put your best foot forward and all businesses do it. It doesn?t have to be considered a false impression if you don?t want the dog barking the whole time you are trying to talk. I brought up the kids with the donuts because it happens to be a true occurrence, it happened when my daughter was there. Why does it have to be an disturbance that you choose?
Why do the situations YOU choose always end up with it being because the kid is a spoiled brat? The things I described DO happen....every day, in programs all over the country. This is not the case of a mortgage company putting it's best foot forward. They're dealing with children and making all kinds of claims of fixing them. They're fucking with their psyche.
There is no break them down build them up at ASR!!!
LGAT-style seminars.
That's what they do. I agree that may be the only way to change someone?s mind who doesn?t want to be changed, but what if you show the kids a better way and they attach on to that and learn from it and change their behavior?
That's what parenting and the process of growing up is for. Why do you people insist that someone else can better parent your child?
If they don?t attach or embrace a new way of living the program will not work for them.
Yes, that's true. And what happens to these kids who do not embrace this new way of living? How are they dealt with? What are they told will happen to them if they
don't[/b] climb on board?
If they did what you say and break them all down and build them up again all the kids would be the same and all graduate like clockwork. But some leave the program others have extended stays, some leave early, some go to college others don?t, some get worse others don?t get helped at all.
How do you figure that? Abuse, coersion and torture effect different people different ways. My stepdad is a Viet Nam vet who's best friend served with him for 2 tours. They witnessed and experienced virtually the same things when they were there yet they are very differently effected by it.
No need to name call. I haven?t called you names and I am just as frustrated with your lack of understanding. You assume too much.
No, we've just dealt with you and your self-righteous, dismissive and condescending tone for far too long.