On 2005-08-21 01:09:00, Anonymous wrote:
"Hey more power to you! I for one have no problem that you are a guy.
So what is it that "us chicks" should be doing fellatio wise compared to what you are doing? Do tell.
I mean I've had dudes and chicks and both have provided me with sufficent oral sex. Maybe your bi friends are really not in fact bi and can't fully come to terms they just outright prefer men. No insults intended here."
I would tend to agree with you, if it was an isolated incident, but it's not. You wouldn't believe how many ads you would see on craigslist for guys asking for some decent head from other men and how they are complaining about how they can't get a good one from their wives or girlfriends. And I actually really do feel that these guys are straight or bi. They just want some good head, for the most part. When you close your eyes, a blow job can be from just about anyone you can imagine. Trust me, if a guy is horny enough, he'll turn to soft fruit for pleasure if it has to come to that. (According to Patsy Stone, anyway! :razz: )
I wish I could tell you specifically what I was doing that was so gosh darn great, but like I said, I don't really consciously think about it when I'm doing it, so I dunno what I do that's so wonderful, and I'm always quite shocked that guys think I'm so good at it. And I actually stopped sucking one of those guys when he said that "why can't girls" line and said to him "hey man! There ARE girls out there who are good at sucking cock, you know!"
On the other side of this, I keep hearing about all of these professed so called "straight" girls who get all grossed out talking about how much they don't like dick or sucking dick. (However, I also know PLENTY of straight girls who LOVE dick and can't get enough of it.) I just always wonder about all of those straight girls who have that "ick" factor around dick. I tend to think maybe it's probably how these girls were raised, most likely. That it was not ok to like their own bodies, or sex, or be turned on by another person's genitals, whether they be male or female, and that sex and sexual activity was gross. So even though they may have consciously grew out of that mindset, maybe there was this subconscious part that was left behind?
What I really don't understand is, what's so awful about swallowing? I think it's the best part, man! That's like the prize at the bottom of the crackerjack box! And the more copious the gushing, the happier I am.
The only advice I could give to "you chicks", really, is to be INTO IT! If you don't want to do it, then don't bother. The most satisfying thing about receiving a blow job is the fact that your partner is as into it as you are. The other thing is, guys shouldn't be mutes! There's nothing wrong with coaching. I like my partners to be communicative. If there's something I'm doing wrong, I like for my partners to tell me what to do that might feel better. You know "slower... faster... not so hard... a little to the left." Don't worry about bruising my ego. This is about your blow job, so I'm into making you feel good, because that's what turns me on. So part of the responsibility is on the men, here, and being communicative to their partners in what they really like when they get blown.
