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How did you tell your children, spouse about the Seed?
ChrisL:
quote "I've always been more a lightening strikes person, so I think all those dating rules are bullshit when you meet the right one at the right time. Why wait for two days if you don't want to? I've never had a serious relationship with someone where we both knew all those stupid rules don't qualify the minute we met. And I've never wasted my time if either one of us is half assed."...
My problem (or is it?) is that at this point in my life (48) I don't feel like I have all the time in the world (left) to wait for "lightning" to strike. I also am not so sure that is really the best thing, i.e. the romantic concept that you meet someone and "you just know" or "things click" I mean I am pretty romantic for a guy and I am more interested in a good friend as well as a good toss, but I am not so sure that "lightning is going to strike again?. I also felt like I should "act my age" and date age appropriate ladies, but I really have to agree with Greg that so far anyway most of the ladies I have dated in their 40's & 50's (early) have a fair amount of baggage or pre-concieved notions of the way things should be / ought to be and quite frankly seem much more uptight about things. I just feel like I am much more open about my feelings than the ladies I have been seeing, and when I express myself they shut down. So I am back to simply pursueing good friendships, I figure a good friend (female) to spend time & enjoy things with is better than going it alone. Thanks for the advice & feedback I appreciate all the different perspectives. & I can use all the help I can get!!
Napolean Bonafart:
I never tell anybody or have tried to even explain the SEED or the other programs because I thought nobody would believe me. I told the military and they understood me. Put myself on the excemption program and got a waiver. But still I never discuss it but here.
...the primary reason to outlaw marijuana
is its effect on the degenerate races.
Harry Anslinger
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NOT12NOW:
When did this become the Woody Allen whine site?
Why are a string of posters now writing about how we are so much more versed in dealing with our feelings then people who haven?t shared our experiences? Isn't that a little vain? You can't assume someone isn't in touch with their own emotions simply because they don't want to hear about yours, or don't want to hear about yours on the first date.
We began by talking about tell all compulsions--compulsions don't indicate self knowledge any more than bleeding all over someone does.
When I was young and naive I thought men who exposed all, right away, were deep and complex along with their cousins the, tell nothing, mystery men but I learned to see these behaviors as warning signs. Signs of relationships I should avoid. Not because I am deluged with baggage but because I am fucking smart. In relationships I looked for men who were strait with me, turn me on, were fun and have the patience to let a relationship develop (all traits my partner has in spades.) A ?toss, that was easy anyone who turned me on was fair game for that.?
It?s no big secret relationships need oxygen to ignite. Don?t blame women and their baggage. Blame god/evolution whatever but give us a break.
Please guys stop with the senior section bit. It?s insulting to us divas, of all ages and you don?t want to upset a full-grown goddess do you? I?ll say this, and if you guys quit it, I?ll say no more. I am a better partner at forty they I was at thirty. I am emotionally more flexible, have less preconceive notions about men and relationships, oh and one last thing my sexual skills, power, and enjoyment are something to behold.
Oh and if you don?t quit you will force me to start a ?benefits of younger men? thread just for revenge. I am serious this gun is loaded.
A little hint, by the way, younger woman aren?t without baggage they are just less likely to know what?s in it.
Anonymous:
Hey 12, funny stuff. I'm in my 30s. And you're right about the younger women having baggage, but not knowing what's in it. I'm definitely more knowledgeable than in my 20s although sometimes,I miss that blissful ignorance. I will say I am much more emotionally flexible and better at giving good love than when I was younger. And certainly, the I've had the best sex of my life in my thirties.
And younger men? Well, things ended recently after a year with a guy in his twenties. I really enjoyed being with a younger man for many reasons but the "not knowing what's in the baggage" seems to apply to young men, too. But God, I'll miss him!
Shanlea
Antigen:
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And younger men? Well, things ended recently after a year with a guy in his twenties.
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:cry: Sorry to hear it.
This would be the best of all possible worlds, if there were no religion in it.
--John Adams, U.S. President
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