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GregFL:

--- Quote ---On 2005-10-24 05:53:00, NOT12NOW wrote:

  I think assessing wether people deserve to know your life is the way to go.  It's ok to keep somethings for yourself.



I started wondering if part of the reason we over disclose in stressful situations, like dates  Is that we learned to seduce the staff by dumping, that's what they encouraged.  It was a way to make people like us, it kept us safe.



I really get the judgement stuff I hadn't thought of it but I am definately  hard on people.  I used to sort of fire all my friends every once and a while---to make a fresh start--try to make friendships I thought would be better for me.



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Cleveland chick 76-77"

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I think you are onto something here, and
Man o man, me too. I would dismiss a friend and claim that they let me down or that "they didn't treat me the way I treated them" kind of attitude.  I way overexpected from friendships  and part of it was trying to manipulate people to behave a certain way or I would reject them.  I never suspected I learned this behavior in "treatment", but I did.

Nowadays I just take people as they come and let the relationship build based on how the people are, not how I think they should be.

Anonymous:
I did not need to.
They did not ask.
If they did I would tell them all about it.

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