Genesis 24:35
"And the LORD hath blessed my master greatly; and he is become great: and he hath given him flocks, and herds, and silver, and gold, and menservants, and maidservants, and camels, and asses."
This isn't, as you suggested, God saying He would bless Abraham thusly - but rather, Abraham's oldest servant declaring him so blessed. Really, in context, he is kind of braggin about what a rich man Abraham is, to impress Laban with what a good match it would be for his daughter, Rebecca, to marry Abraham's son, Isaac.
Manservants and maidservants were apparently as common as illegal nannies and gardeners are today - and even more accepted, as it wasn't breaking immigration or tax law. It was simply not viewed as an evil in society - and God doesn't demand that it be seen as such. Maybe there are things about society then, that made slavery more beneficial than evil. I'm just speculating - but maybe for some people it was what kept them alive - somewhat like the welfare system today. Maybe if it had been forbidden, many would have gone without food and shelter. Maybe. Anyway, as I said, for what ever reason, God did not forbid it; and I Trust Him to do what is just at all times, weather or not I understand it; even if, to me, with my limited and flawed human understanding, it seems unjust. Even as I puzzle over God's acceptance of slavery, I can see that it would certainly be better to be a servant in a Hebrew household, than a Roman - and far better than starving or begging on the streets.
God allowing the keeping of slaves is not the same as ordering it. Saying a man may go free if you put out his eye, may not seem like justice - but this is the only law there has ever been allowing any kind of consideration for the servant at all. And other than the Hebrews in Biblical times - no such consideration has ever been given.
// OF THEM SHALL YE BUY.
Not an order? //
I don't think so. I'd like to look it up and read it in context - but my guess is it is permission, not an order. And, as hard as it seems - Maybe it was more merciful to allow the buying of people over starving them or killing them - which may have been the only other alternatives.
I have always been much more troubled by the order to kill all in the land they were to conquer than by the slavery issue. I don't understand it and have already been over this very early on with Timocela. God, being God, could see the results of all possibilities; and I trust He justly judged what was the better course to take. Maybe, with out that apparent brutality, the world would have become far more evil than it is. For instance - maybe we would all be living under something like Nazi rule otherwise. You see - I don't know - but I trust that God does. Indeed, I know God does, and so I trust Him.
As far as being a nice guy - Greg, you just can't put God in any such box. Not nice guy, or bad guy, or any kind of guy at all. He is God. He owes us no kind of explanation what so ever. Especially considering our overwhelmingly rebellious nature. He has gone to great lengths to try and help us live rightly and honestly; despite our constant tendency to live wrongly and dishonestly. He has given us the more sure word of Prophecy so we can know that He is in Heaven and that His word is True - And He came to us and explained personally what the meaning of the law,( as men had so greatly misunderstood it - following it to the letter but ignoring the heart of it.) And finely paid the price of our sin, so we could be redeemed and found blameless and be reconciled with Him. This goes far beyond being a nice guy. This is being a patient and merciful God.
You keep wanting to talk about the law which puts me at a disadvantage - as I am not living under the law - and no Christian ever has. As a result, I've not troubled myself with it much. You'd do better debating this subject with a learned Rabbi. I am doing the best I can with my limited knowledge and study - but its very limited and I am mostly guessing. I really wouldn't want anyone to take my words on these subjects as "Gospel".
" prothelize ?" No - thats not my aim. Thats not something I do Greg. I make it a point not to bring the subject up, as I don't want to trouble the uninterested with it. But I will debate, discuss and explain as best I can, with anyone who shows an interest. You are very clear that I'm not doing such a good job. I'm sorry for that; and I can only ask you, and any one else reading, not to judge the subject by the lack of this messenger's skill.