Being that I am a grandmother, and being put through such hell, kept me from allowing anything like that to happen to my kid, you respond because you are guilty for not being there for your child and allowing someone else to step in , for one I bet your child's problems came from that sad environment you gave him or her, your attitude for one sucks, so I am sure you are a great cause of your child's problems. To trust anyone with your kids is really like playing Russian roulette, to force a soul to be something they are not is like making a painter paint in black when he has only a yellow paint to work with, your time later will come when your child has had time to become 100 percent themselves, lets see how your future goes when that soul just wants to be himself again, like I said before I hope you have to go through what I did, this way then you would shut the fu_____ up about what a stupid mistake you made. Forcing does not mean that someone is changed and it certainly does not make them better, it covers them is all, but you will have to find that out on own, see one day we all leave our parents, hopefully anyways, and we become our own self, and what ever one had to go through is brought back over and over again, I bet there is so much going on in that child's soul, and you know nothing at all about that, and never will. I pray your child has a healthy happy life, as far as parents like you who want to form and control a soul, screw you, you are not worth wasting good finger tips to. Freedom is for everyone, control has to stop.