Having spent almost the last two years in outpatient and AA Recovery for Alcoholism, I've come to the conclusion that while AA has its Big Book, 12 and 12 and other Documentation, it really is very open ended. Meaning its like a ball of Clay.
You can take the clay and make out of it what you wish. Apparently there are many who post here that have a lot of Ism's
Well certainly they have a lot of resentments. I dont think the God thing should be as big a deal as everyone makes it.
The founders Bill W and Doctor Bob just happened to be Christians. But they wanted to keep it wide open for anyone to choose what their "Higher power was" It could be just the other people that you share with if you like.
I cant pick up my couch and move it without some help, and I couldn't stop Drinking without some help.
I do however think that AA CAN BE VERY DANGEROUS. Drug Addict/Alcoholics are very sick people. I am tired of hearing the stories about " My sponsor was a great guy he had 27 years then went out for six months then shot himself"
This means that these people are doing things inside there own heads that isn't very healthy.
I told my sponsor today, Please don't ever feel so bad over a slip, that you would kill yourself.
I would totally rather suck down a few Martinis once in a while rather than put a bullet in my head!
Sorry for rambling and good luck to everyone in their recovery.
By the Way there is another way out you could try the Regenerate Program from NIFAR (National institute for Alcohol Recovery)
http://WWW.NIFAR.COM or ORG not sure, just check it out!