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Offline CCM girl 1989

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« Reply #15 on: October 08, 2007, 01:39:47 PM »
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CCM Girl, what would happen to you psychologically if mamala decided to pull her daughter out?


Nothing?!!! If she feels like she can take her daughter on again, then more power to her! But, since it's been such a short time that her daughter has been there, I would hope that she was not pulling her on the advice of you here. Those of you who are trying to make her feel guilty, that she's some awful parent because she isn't able to help this child of hers on own her own, and for one reason, or another sought help?
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« Reply #16 on: October 08, 2007, 01:48:58 PM »
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Those of you who are trying to make her feel guilty, that she's some awful parent because she isn't able to help this child of hers on own her own, and for one reason, or another sought help?



Is there a question in there somewhere?
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« Reply #17 on: October 08, 2007, 01:52:10 PM »
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Out of curiosity..... Are you a mormon??????


Not that it's any of your business, but no I am not! Hey, since you live in Boca, does that make you a jew?!! LOL!!!!!

Next time I am in Delray, I'll make sure and look you up. If Deborah has it her way you'll have JEW tattooed across your forehead in no time at all. But, how on earth will I set you apart from all the other jews out there?

Anyway, I personally could care less what religion anybody on this board, or on this earth here is. What matters most to me is what kind of person you are in your heart.

Unfortunately, a lot of you on here have proven to be total assholes who most of the time like to pretend you're smarter then everyone else.
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« Reply #18 on: October 08, 2007, 01:55:10 PM »
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Why were you there for 3 1/2 years?


Well, let's see.....in the 7th grade, I got kicked out of 2 Junior High Schools. One for truancy, fighting, smoking, and getting kicked out of several of my classes for mouthing off. The second school was for fighting. Not just one instance, several.

When I got to Heritage I was a total mess. I needed to be there for at least 2 of those years. I would say I grew quite a bit during that time. The next 1 1/2 years I was still growing, and I was put on transition with 2 different familes where I was allowed to go to Orem High School. I messed up both times, and got sent back.


What????  That tells me precisely dick.  What was the reasoning they gave for keeping you for 3 1/2 years?  What were the therapeutic processes that were employed to help you 'grow'?

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I honestly think my parents didn't want me back home. I think life was easier, and less problematic without me. You cannot make parents take you home, and with my past history of violence there wasn't a lot of boarding schools that would've taken me. If any?

So, the solution is to warehouse you?  Nice.

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So, I was sent to Cross Creek Manor for the next 9 months, I was told basically from my therapist that he felt my parents were never going to be taking me home, and that more then likely I was going to be there until I was 18.

So, I took my future into my own hands, and ran away. I stayed a year on my own in St. George, Utah. Then my Aunt and Uncle found me, and brought me into their family in Northern California.




Ah, I see.  An "exit plan" huh?
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« Reply #19 on: October 08, 2007, 01:57:00 PM »
Deborah,

I would never attempt to tell you what to do! It's very clear that you know it all. It just proves to me what they say to be true.....you too CAN learn a lot from a dummy!!!!

CCM girl :-)
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« Reply #20 on: October 08, 2007, 02:07:11 PM »
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Anyway, I personally could care less what religion anybody on this board, or on this earth here is. What matters most to me is what kind of person you are in your heart.


Well aren't you special. Actually, you're not. Most people here could give a flying fuck what religion you or anyone else is. You are too defensive to engage in a discussion on this issue, witnessed by your inability to get past this being religious prejudice.

For the last time.... THIS IS ABOUT TRUTH IN ADVERTISING. POTENTIAL FRAUD. DECEPTION.

If one is going to run a religious based/influenced program, it should be disclosed.
Your opinion doesn't trump the owner's comment. Go listen again. Maybe you'll get it.
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« Reply #21 on: October 08, 2007, 02:23:29 PM »
Deborah,

I think we are going to need to enroll you in some Anger Management classes girl! I do hope you have left some hair on that head of yours, and not pulled it all out by now. I'm picturing a few Howard Dean screams going on too!!!!! Really, take it easy Deb!
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« Reply #22 on: October 08, 2007, 02:43:18 PM »
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Deborah,

I think we are going to need to enroll you in some Anger Management classes girl! I do hope you have left some hair on that head of yours, and not pulled it all out by now. I'm picturing a few Howard Dean screams going on too!!!!! Really, take it easy Deb!


You 'hear' what you want to hear. I resent your evaluation of me. Keep your shade-tree analysis to yourself. It's not welcomed.
I'm not angry. I'm trying to answer the question you keep asking, but can't hear the answer to.  FWIW, I won't be wasting anymore time with that. I'm done.
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« Reply #23 on: October 08, 2007, 02:50:01 PM »
Wow Deb, you can really dish it out! But, as far as taking it????
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« Reply #24 on: October 08, 2007, 02:54:23 PM »
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Wow Deb, you can really dish it out! But, as far as taking it????



What?  She's as disgusted as I am at a programs survivor that's still so washed they can't see what's right in front of their face.
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« Reply #25 on: October 08, 2007, 03:00:56 PM »
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Wow Deb, you can really dish it out! But, as far as taking it????


What?  She's as disgusted as I am at a programs survivor that's still so washed they can't see what's right in front of their face.


I'm sorry Anne, what program did you say you went to?!! Due me a favor, and stick to what you do know. If that's anything?????
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« Reply #26 on: October 08, 2007, 03:05:18 PM »
I would almost bet you are a member of a 12 program where brainwashing continues....... (Just a thought....might not be right...just a hunch)
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« Reply #27 on: October 08, 2007, 03:05:33 PM »
Just because a member of a certain religion is involved with something, does not mean that it is church sanctioned.  I am a survivor of a Religious Cult Home, and I am against forced religion in any form, but my inlaws are mormon, and I take offense to the whole idea that this place is being ran by the church itself.  The mormons are the most profamily group of people you could ever get to know.  They are salt of the earth, shirt off their back, good, decent, and kind human beings.  I don't want to argue religion, I know that everyone means well here, well almost everyone, some people should keep their amatuer psychoanalysis to themselves, but i digress..... instead of beating the drum that religion might in some way be involved in these homes, talk to the survivors and find out if they felt pressured to become involved with a religion.  They baptised me until I thought I would drown at Roloff and that didn't turn me into a fundamental baptist.  As for the question did being forced to sit in the same place and write sentences for hours without a pillow, while yes it is a control tactic and therefore abusive, they can be thankful they were allowed to sit as opposed to kneeling on the lenolium for hours.  Who ever thought up that torture tactic was not as creative as some of the other homes.
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« Reply #28 on: October 08, 2007, 03:11:14 PM »
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Exactly. This phrase sums them up quite nicely. You do know what "salt the land" means, don't you?
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« Reply #29 on: October 08, 2007, 03:28:35 PM »
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I would almost bet you are a member of a 12 program where brainwashing continues....... (Just a thought....might not be right...just a hunch)



No, I am not. I don't have any addiction problems at the moment. I'm sure I will get attacked by saying this, but whatever! I have always been 100% honest when asked.

I got into a pretty bad horse accident, and injured my back. I was given vicodin which helped me with the pain. It allowed me to go back to work, and make a living without having to ask others for help. I was on it for a few months. The doctors realized that I was becoming addicted, and wouldn't prescribe it to me anymore. So, I found other ways of getting it. The first reason was because I liked the way it made me feel when I was on it. Then after a while there was no pleasure I felt when taking it. However, if I didn't take it, I would go through withdrawls. That felt awful. When I did finally get off of it, I was really sick for almost a month. Night sweats, the chills, I also seemed to get every single cold, and flu virus known to man at once.

So anyway, what I got from all that, was the ability to understand those with addiction problems. I had never in my life been able to imagine what my cousin who was addicted to heroin felt like. Why the hell she kept going back to it, and how come she couldn't stay clean? Well, now I have a better understanding not only for her, but for others struggling with addiction problems.

So, to make a long story short, no, I am not a part of a 12 step program. But, if that's what helps someone with their problems, why should I dismiss it as just being another "fucked up cult"?

If you don't agree with their ways, that's fine. But, for some people it truly helps them. Why wouldn't you want people to get better, get healthy, and start making good decisions?
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