I understand your hesitancy. I don't think it's illegitimate.
I do question, though, the inclination to jump to the worst possible conclusion.
Are you aware of the decision making process that took place?
Have you sent cafety an email asking for a reason behind the actions?
If the decision making process was explained to you, would you then feel more comfortable with the decision?
What I've been reading in these few threads is a sort of all or nothing approach. See it my way, or we boycott. I think that can lead to many more problems which need not arise. Talking trash on Fornits is fun and all, but it seems more people than not are being accused without a good foundation being established first. Do you really want to trash a whole group of dedicated individuals who you would probably get on with just fine in real life and share many of the same values, merely because of a link?