Yes Kelly, what Psy said. The same thing happened when I first came here. I see that it's happened a lot, but probably no more here than somewhere else. Just do your best to ignore it.
I, for one, am glad you came here to get some help. There are a lot of people here, and a wealth of information and resources. Sometimes there's things that you might just want to turn the otherway, but for the most part, there's a lot of information and caring people.
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By the way, there are other sites that link to Fornits, that's how I found you guys, also someone else had told me about you quite a while ago. It's not like you guys are hidden from the public.