Thank you, Lurker and kind Guest, for your votes of affirmation. I am sure that if it wasn't the 30-year issue it would be something else. Mike has a thirst for polemic that goes beyond any rational explanation, so I'm not even going to try.
What concerns me most about the pick-pick-picking is the undoubtedly chilling effect this particular issue might have on other posters and readers regarding their own experiences. I've come across this same sentiment whilst trawling the archives here, the "get over it already" and the "there must be something wrong with you if you don't" mentality of some seemingly most robust psyches, and it simply smacks of petty intimidation. Pretty similar, if you ask me, to the conformist mindset I remember from Hyde. And pretty sad, when you consider that we're really all in this together.
Yes, finding this Forum have been a gift. A most life-affirming gift, at least for me.