Caught in the Middle, I understand yours and Jackie's desire to have faith. Who wouldn't? You guys seem petrified over this boy's behavior and here are these people making too-good-to-be-true promises. Who wouldn't want desperately to believe?
But it's just not so. I have a brother who went through one of the early, more notorious programs twice. This was 30 odd years ago. And, to this day, not only does he defend the program and deny even having wittnessed abuses that were documented in the media while he was there, but he'll attack me or anyone else who disagrees with him. They got him, hard, hook line and sinker. I was 6 when they stole him from me.
Here's another glowing testimonial of the Program right after the kid's obit.
http://fornits.com/wwf/viewtopic.php?to ... =60#162392Here's another similar story, as part of an indepth investigative report by Lou Kilzer for the Denver Rocky Mountain News. This mother said these things
after her son shot himself in the head right in front of her
while she was threatening to send him back for ANOTHER li'll 'tune up'.
http://www.denver-rmn.com/desperate/sit ... esp1.shtml
""Corey was very happy in the program," she says. "It was the best place for him. He was happy the whole time."
"Laura says proof that Corey was happy and well-adjusted at Paradise Cove can be seen from letters he sent home saying he loved being there."
...
"I did return my son Corey to SCL (Spring Creek Lodge) after he'd been home a year ? the moment I found out that he was drinking and smoking pot. ... He is now back home again, but he understands that if he runs away from home, he stays wherever he runs to. I WON'T HAVE HIM IN MY HOUSE WITH THIS BEHAVIOR."
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"I think he was trying to manipulate me into sending him back into the program where he could get the help he really needed," she says.
"It is very unfortunate that in his inability to cope with life he couldn't just ask me, because I would have sent him back if he wanted to go ...
"He was happy in the program ... All you have to do is read his letters."
"Presiding at the funeral was the director of Teen Help's Spring Creek Lodge."
I
HIGHLY recomend printing out Lou Kilzer's whole story or even the whole series.
Look, these methods are
extremely effective. It's not expansion or exageration (nor manipulation or imagination) to compare them to the methods used to turn good, patriotic American POWs temporarily into good Communists. Senator Sam Ervin (of Watergate fame) made the same comparison back in `74 in his committee report "Individual Rights and the Federal Role in Behavior Modification"
http://thestraights.com/images/seed-Ervin-brainwash.htmThis is the report that forced NIDA to stop federal funding to Synanon based programs. This happened sometime between the time my family got involved w/ the Seed and when they put me in Straight. I've read reems and volumes and talked to a LOT of ppl who have been involved in WWASP and other similar programs. Same bullshit, slightly different window dressing. Same results.
In a nutshell, the Therapeutic Community model is
extremely effective! Not the least bit therapeutic nor conducive to healthy communities, but
very, very effective!Don't worry about temptation--as you grow older, it starts avoiding you.
-- Old Farmer's Almanac