Karen,
I am happy that your involvement with ala has been a good experience and that it has worked out for you. I think a lot of parents wonder, after the fact, how to unravel the mess that wasp has created, how to deal with that deep and profound sense of sadness, and to move forward then, and effectuate the things they purported to do (unite and heal the family, HELP your child).
I for one am constantly asking myself (perhaps from shame and guilt), what can i do to make up for the awful mistake i've made by sending him there, how can i better help him, and how can be an advocate for other kids in the same situation? My thoughts and actions are reflective of that.
from what i have seen, your results, is your son graduated highschool, in thephoto he looks happy, and you yourself also looked happy.
you must be pleased that you were able to attain a goal (helping your son, helping others in the same situation).
on religion: Religion is adaptive, and a personal matter. I do, as a matter of opinion, prefer the "non-denominational" christian aspect described on their website and the fact that criminals, thugs, etc. do not belong there.
Karen, you helped me when i was dealing with the realization of what had transpired during my son's 3 week stay at wasp. You consoled and you were not judgmental, your posts to me were thoughtful insight, and your suggestions were practical, You were able to empathize and sympathize, what i am trying to say is I appreciated your help and I NEVER QUESTIONED YOUR MOTIVE, there was no need, your sincerity made that clear.
:smile:
Gina