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Quote from: ""Valhalla""Well, she is a victim, too...as are their children. The web that Straight wove just gets bigger and bigger.:cry2: :cry2: :cry2: :cry2:
but it wasnt taken out of context or he wouldnt have defended what he knew he was saying before he posted. he blatantly went one route and then finally got tired and chose to suddenly call foul and say it was all about him. total bs. but believe what you want. im just surprised based on what you Call an assumption you would defend a stranger so strongly.
Quote from: ""Valhalla""Quote from: ""Froderik""Fuck that! What part of "pathetic shortcomings" didn't sink in? :roll:If that was directed my way, I'd have to say that it was in response to a Vet's wife's post about her anguish with her husband.
i feel for her damn husband he's the victim not her.
Quote from: ""Valhalla""If he had said, "It's cool to force-feed Hindus steak sandwiches" in attempt to make her feel better about it somehow, would that change anything about the statement itself? :rofl:Quote from: ""Froderik""Fuck that! What part of "pathetic shortcomings" didn't sink in? :roll:If that was directed my way, I'd have to say that it was in response to a Vet's wife's post about her anguish with her husband.
It doesn't really matter why he said it; point is he said it...
Fuck that! What part of "pathetic shortcomings" didn't sink in? :roll:
Yeah just like group the 2 of you together would have been great on staff fuckin with everyones heads the way you're trying to now. It's actually getting pretty fucking amusing. Either that or he's got you fooled too, i just don't think you're that stupid, a bit naive but not stupid.
You've made 1 thing plainly clear, you KNOW guest. duh...
You at least know him more then the rest of us do. NO doubt.
That statement, YOU know the one. the one we ALL knew would stir shit up, that was his intention after all. Very obvious since he defends it at the end of his post. eh? Catch that? OF course you did. You also knew damn well when you READ that line what it would do.I don't think Guest meant to 'stir things up'. I think they knew that what they wrote to the wife of a Vet somehow, might help her come to grips with it all. Afterall, this whole thread is about her and her husband and all the shit she's been throught because her husband won't get some kind of help (in whatever form you might think) for his abusiveness towards her and their children. THAT is what the Guest was responding to....HER post; it had nothing to do with US. The Guest was trying to console her, in some way, to help her through her pain with her husband.
I would have far more respect for him, had he had the balls to keep it real but no. He can't even do that. He spouts some bull shit, tries to defend it, gets totally RAILED and then says *oh oh i was talking about me really i was me me me and my toe* what ever! No I don't buy it. Sorry. LOL Nice try!
just when i thought this thread couldn't get any more RIDICULOUS... l and how do you know GUESTS words were taken completely out of context? you knew the context of every word he wrote and we didn't because...?? You're psychic? OF course not, because you know him, thats right.
talk about being amazed... im amazed. but not surprised not at all. Keep on defending him he obviously cant do it for himself. He is what i would call A COWARD. Talks shit and can't even reveal himself and has to be Defended by perfect strangers, oh right right i keep forgetting you know him....
what a waste of a fucking thread.
Be mad at yourself here, you brought it on either by really meaning what you typed, or being a bit too unaware of what you typed, or just plain stupid, which i find hard to believe. I think my reaction and anger is justified based on What you implied (whether you meant it or not really doesn't matter it's what was written) in your post. And seeing that i don't know you i have NOTHING else to go on.. im guessing kim might? I could be wrong just an observation, esp since you imply you know some people here. maybe she is lucky enough to have some insight about you that WE don't, which just might allow her to discern your statments a bit better then someone who is clueless..?
But this week especially. Steve died 21 years ago, this week. I'm a bit on edge and im going to take everything a bit more personally then usual. Although I still would have talked shit but maybe not quite as much. who knows. So i guess you just picked a bad week to post, cuz you definitely got me at my worst, but im not ashamed of that. I'm human with emotions that are running a muck at the moment and when I'm offended or hurt, I react.
I should of known better than to post here with good intentions. Nothing is more like group than being stood up and semantically picked apart and told to talk about myself and no one else.
Quote from: ""Valhalla""Hmmm...I find it interesting how differently a post can be inferred.
I see that Guest's main point has consistently been about 'choices'. We all have the potential to decide how we will live our lives or not live them. Sure we've all been through hell, but whether or not to let it dictate the rest of our lives is up to us.
Apparently you are the only one... But he blatantly said that the Pathetic Shortcomings ( no judgment there) of some people were merely due to excuses. As if he could possible KNOW this. Give me a break.
And I don't think you perceived the post any different, I think you agree, and others don't. And you have that right, but, he should be speaking of himself... Its not about US Kim just cuz you were in there with these people does NOT make it a WE thing... You know that right? Sure we can bond and we can come together, BUT its an individual journey and a personal battle for everyone. It's about ME, I not US when it Comes to something like that!!
No one should tell me or anyone else on this board what WE should be doing. NO ONE has been through the same exact hell and even if they were the effects on each person were surely be different so how can you or anyone tell someone not to let THEIR problems dictate THEIR life when it has nothing to do with YOU? It's THEIR life.