Call me masochistic but I can't help but to beat the hornets nest like it was a fucking pinata one more time.
You obviously have never met anyone that has overplayed the role of some crippled broken down lame ass fucker because of $tr8. I'm talking about the daily decision to continue to play the dramatic role of the victim in all regards. I have met these folks, in my own neighborhood from my own program! That isn't my 'condescending judgement' of these guys either. These are my homeboys that I have known for decades that I eat, drink, and smoke with as I mentioned. The way I stated that was: "so easy for program vets to use their experience as an excuse for their pathetic shortcomings in life" not all program vets, but a few I know, self included though not mentioned. I too have been that crippled broken down lame ass fucker that has blamed the fucking program for everything from stubbing my toe to the car with dark windows parked across the street. I was not referring to myself when I made my initial post to PAs wife. Whether I refer to myself or my homeboys that have suffered through the same shit is my perogative as the composer of the post. Since I did mention the fact that it's easy for some vets to choose to play the role of a victim, I knew kneejerks would happen and people would shred my post. Hence my closing sentence.
I do choose not to continue to be victimized by STRAIGHT daily as I mentioned. Some days it works for me, some days it doesn't. I'm not judging anyone nor am I being condescending.
I just have to say that I don't know anyone named Kim. Webdiva it sounds like you lit a torch to start some sort of witchhunt against someone that may have somehow possibly understood something in what I had to say to PAs wife.
I also have to ask you webdiva where in the fuck were you reading about pedophilia in any of my posts? How in the fuck did this go from the whether or not a person can really make a decision not to allow the continued daily dramatic victimization by STRAIGHT to pedophilia? I missed something.
Words have been so completely twisted around and what is seen now is only the twist. Misunderstood by some of the few that could even begin to understand. Venomous and all too familiar...