I don't think I ever said nor implied that what works for me works for everyone. I said "One thing you probably should keep in mind is that it is ever so easy for program vets to use their experience as an excuse for their pathetic shortcomings in life." Which is true in some circumstances for some people.
Do you really disagree with that statement?
I'm asking...
Look the last thing I support is a prozac nation. that was NOT my implication, everything Can be "answered" with a pill, right. I fully disagree with that attitude. But I do study cognitive science, hoping to go back and major in it actually and am finding out some damn interesting things about the ole brain. Plenty of studies out there you know... Anyway, the whole prozac nation mentality is exactly why I've chosen not to got that route even if it will help... We pass pills out like candy, there is a reason this is happening in our country, after all. My point really is a chemical imbalance is perspective. Who is to say someone is imbalanced? I mean unless it's some major imbalance, but who ever defined what the "balance" was?. Who is to say what's normal? As if anyone
really has a handle on that ?? People would love to think so.
Do I agree with your FINAL statement? you mean the judgmental one about someones
pathetic shortcomings ? So nice of you to put it that way. Who wouldn't agree that in some circumstances for SOME people
anything is possible. My question to you is how could you
possibly know for a fact that a person is blaming their "pathetic" shortcomings on straight when it's in fact simply because they are a pathetic loser?
How do you know for a
fact something they went through didn't effect then much deeper than it did you? How do you know they hadn't had a miserable or abusive childhood prior? Many people never reveal certain abuse, even to their best friends so don't think you would know cuz you knew them.
Boys and girls actually got raped by staff in straight. We had a cia agent/pedophile/rapist working for straight apprehending cop outs, I knew him personally. My brother "supposedly" reported a rape while he was on a cop out when he got back into straight and was told he deserved it and it was never reported to the police. I think at that point I'd be ready to die. They had created an outlook so bleak for him he
thought he had no other choice and he had no one to turn to. No one.
Things that traumatic can most definitely cause social issues that will be with someone for the rest of their natural born life, no matter HOW hard they try to change. Are you saying that is NOT true? The one thing I will say is this. Once a person lays the blame, it is up to them to do what they can to live. Sure. Do they have a right to keep laying blame? Absolutely, it's their struggle, their life and who am I to say otherwise. I myself would do my damnedest to move on but i certainly would never let a friend think I thought his issues were pathetic and he was using straight as an excuse. Because there is no way I could know that for sure.
How do you take a statement like your question to me and say you aren't being judgmental? Do you pick and choose whose shortcomings are valid and whose are pathetic? On whose authority do you do this? And based on what knowledge of their personal life? I mean you would really have to know
everything about a person to make such a claim.
When all is said and done, what do you care if someone, who you deem pathetic or at least their shortcomings, blames straight? How does that effect you exactly? Do you really think it will help them?
$traight was great at that though. Knowing what was good for everyone and telling them how they should be and how pathetic they were if they didn't comply.