Thanks, I appreciate any info I can get. First, I have no way of knowing which Daytop center he is at, only that he is in NY. He called me just before he went into "intake" and said he'd write or call. Nothing. Next, I am not on speaking terms w/his family, they hate me... very long story. I'm not too fond of them either. I am so afraid I'll get him in trouble if I give them my name. I've called and asked, and immediately they want to know my name. I'm afraid I'll get him in trouble from everything I've read... He probably didn't sign a confidientality agreement for me... he was freaked out when I last talked to him, and said he was just going to do what they said until he could get out of there, and get some sort of "certificate" of graduation to keep from going to jail. He is 24yo, in "adult treatment". I have no contacts and I'm wondering if maybe he found another girlfriend in there! Maybe I'm being dumped and I'm just stupied. It's been almost 2 months. I really just want to know if he wanted to, could he get ahold of me or not? Can he get to a phone or write letters? Any input would be more appreciated than you can ever know.