On 2005-02-15 16:20:00, puma046 wrote:
"I've been out of CEDU for almost three years but that place still haunts me. I feel like every experience I had there dampened my ability to really feel anything. Before I went, I'll admit I was caught up in some unhealthy things and that I needed to change a bit, but at least I was happy. I had real friends that I cared about and that cared about me.
Boulder Creek was always so miserable, but I always felt this hope dangling in front of me that one day I was going to be happy again, just like I had been before those escorts showed up and changed my life. But I just haven't been able to shake this incessant feeling of sadness, loneliness, almost a depressed state of mind. Three years later I'm not just sitting around idley in this shit; I'm doing pretty well by social standards, but I just haven't been able to feel truly happy again.
Is there anyone else out there who can relate? I've seen some of the nasty, insensitive posts and responses that people on here are capable of, but I'm hoping that at least someone can feel me on this. Send me a private message or something along those lines if you think you can help. I appreciate it. "
I can relate to a lot of what you're saying.
I've been out of Cedu for 13 years now, and I'm still pissed off about what goes on there.
They did quite a number on my head too, I had nightmares for at least a year after I got out of Cedu...but compared to other people I know, I got off pretty easy.
My advice to you is this: fill your life with other positive things, work, hobbies, relationships, school,family,friends,exercise, etc... keep your life so busy that you don't have time to stew and think about Cedu.
Isolation and lonliness are a fact of life at Cedu,we all went through it, but you're out now. You don't have to feel this way anymore, so don't let yourself! You will have to make a concious effort to reject these horrible feelings that Cedu Instilled on you. This is hard to do at first, but it does get easier.
Another thing, don't let your own experience go to waste... share it with others, because you can still help the kids who haven't yet been hurt by Cedu.
I personally have had the privlege of talking two sets of prospective parents out of sending their kids to cedu. It really is a great feeling to know that you've saved someone else from the pain and misery you went through.
I'm around here quite a bit, so feel free to send me a PM if you ever want to talk.