i think the cedu program is only a cult to those too weak minded to stand up to it. i was at RMA for the full program, graduated in 1999. i went through the motions, made some great friends, and didn't let it get to me.
i remember what i want to, and leave the rest behind. i think you only feel like you're being brain washed if you let yourself become weak. they can't brain wash anyone who is too strong to succumb to their crap. i think there are some staff there who's hearts are in the right place. i think there are other sick, sadistic staff who are in the wrong. but you can survive and come out somewhat normal if you just remember that it will be over soon, this is not your life - merely a pit stop - and just go through the motions without being sucked in to too much crap.