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« Reply #75 on: April 11, 2004, 10:23:00 AM »
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Another Elian Gonzalez case where others feel they are more qualified to have custody of a child than the parent.

My prayers are for the girl to realize the choices she has been making are bad choices; and for the parents.  

Paige, pray that God's will be done, not Paige's will be done.  She is not your daughter.  If you want to interfere with the parental rights of someone, in Arizona a woman was just sentenced to 20 years in prison for prostituting her 13 year old daughter for crack cocaine.  There is a noble and worthy cause for you to step in and help.  the mother is obviously an unfit parent.

Please don't confuse a difference of parenting styles (yours vs. the girl's mom) with bad parenting.  

God bless her parents for loving her enough to demonstrate tough love.
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« Reply #76 on: April 11, 2004, 12:19:00 PM »
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On 2004-04-10 20:40:00, Anonymous wrote:  The girl is there, a direct result of bad choices she has made.


HMMMMM! How do you know what choices the girl made? Are you the mom?
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« Reply #77 on: April 11, 2004, 03:39:00 PM »
Karen wrote this: I assume Amanda's parents feel they are following God's direction; and I would not second guess them. If they've made a mistake, I trust God will somehow let them know.

Anon writes this: Maybe God has, by sending Paige.

Nice Quote from the Family coordinaotr for ALa don't you think.
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« Reply #78 on: April 12, 2004, 10:36:00 AM »
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Pray for God's will to be done with the girl, not Paige's will to be done.  God our Father knows what is best, not Paige."




Who are you to speak for God in this manner? How do you know it's not God's will for Amanda to move in w/ her brother? Can you explain to me exactly how God went about telling you this?


The parental authority over the child rests with the parents, not for this person who is trying to interfere with their decisions in the girls life.
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« Reply #79 on: April 12, 2004, 03:37:00 PM »
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On 2004-04-09 18:12:00, Paige wrote:

"Sorry - not screaming -just want those who don't seem to be able to read the smaller type and understand it, that I'm not giving up on this child.



Sounds like the parents aren't giving up on her either.  That is why they are demonstrating tough love with the girl.  Because they love her.
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« Reply #80 on: April 12, 2004, 03:40:00 PM »
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They know the history and they know that this is the right thing to do. Do you think that all of us are wrong?



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Yes.  You are not the parent.  You are trying to usurp their authority.  Yes, you are very wrong
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« Reply #81 on: April 12, 2004, 03:41:00 PM »
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On 2004-04-09 20:46:00, Anonymous wrote:

"People need to understand that God is not in the business of fixing troubled teens.  


Jesus is in the business of healing those who need it.
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« Reply #82 on: April 12, 2004, 03:46:00 PM »
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On 2004-04-10 16:37:00, Anonymous wrote:

"Whoever wrote that long bunch of crud,  Elian Gonzalez? the will of Paige? Tough love? sounds like no love to me. Your an idiot. you haven't read any of this. maybe your the adoptive mom who dumped this kid when it got dificult for you and you just didn't want to bother with her anymore."


Proverbs 18:2
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« Reply #83 on: April 12, 2004, 06:00:00 PM »
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On 2004-04-12 12:37:00, Anonymous wrote:

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On 2004-04-09 18:12:00, Paige wrote:


"Sorry - not screaming -just want those who don't seem to be able to read the smaller type and understand it, that I'm not giving up on this child.





Sounds like the parents aren't giving up on her either.  That is why they are demonstrating tough love with the girl.  Because they love her."


You don't know why they sent her there. If you do please enlighten all of us, i will promise you that in this particular case it is the parents who need to be there.
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