If you ended up in a program, you were probably behaving in a way that concerned people enough to choose that option.
Wrong, but I understand that you've been programmed to believe that. If a kid is sent away, there MUST be a good reason...amirite? It could NEVER be that the parent is over-reacting or being scared by some Ed-Con into believing that their kid is "troubled", right?
That means that unlike 99.9% of teenagers, you were sent to a program for troubled teens, which by definition is a population of people who will more likely have trouble in society when they grow up.
If they've been subjected to the mindfuck that is LGAT-type programs, you're damn right they'll have more problems.
As teens we showed symptoms of being troubled, and so programs want to work hard to keep us out of jail or institutions, and maybe set us on the right path.
You might have, but not me. As a teen, I showed the symptoms of being a normal teenager. I had an incredibly strict father who didn't like the fact that after the divorce my mother gave me more freedom than he did, so off I went to Straight. I had experimented with pot and drank but never had a drug or alcohol "problem". No behavior problems reported at school. Nothing clinical diagnoses of anyting.....no ODD, ADHD or anything remotely close to it. In fact, the only person that had a problem with how I was living my life was my father, who was a very controlling man who didn't like people disagreeing with him.
There is a reason so many "program vets" end up in jail, or killing themselves from drugs, or insane.
I was told for years after I rejected Straight's thinking that I would end up that way. I'm still here, living a relatively happy life....all without benefit of Straight, AA or any other dogmatic bullshit. Funny, it wasn't until I shook off all of Straight and AA's teachings that I truly began to 'recover' and become happy.
Some people even try to use this fact as proof that programs don't work.
No they don't. They use it as anecdotal evidence that programs can, and very often do, harm kids.
But, I don't think it's a self fulfilling prophecy, there is no such thing.
It's called the Pygmalion Effect and it's real.
http://www.ntlf.com/html/pi/9902/pygm_1.htmhttp://www.psy.gla.ac.uk/~steve/hawth.html#pyg Remember the wise words of Sarah Connor, there is no fate but what we make.
I don't like to base my life decisions off of fictional characters in a sci-fi movie. But that's just me.