Treatment Abuse, Behavior Modification, Thought Reform > The Ridge Creek School / Hidden Lake Academy
Sex occurs on campus
Anonymous:
My child was screamed at, and screamed at, because my child had nothing to write one session. then my child was given 50 push -ups.
Deborah:
--- Quote from: ""Guest"" ---I get what you are saying and can agree with you way of thinking. I am just looking for someone to stand up and say that it is a load of crap for a student at HLA to say "I don't know anything" in regards to fall out.
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What's the point. A "load of crap" response to a "load of crap" method. Why do you expect anything else? Is one really any worse than the other? And we haven't even touched on kids being put on restrictions for false allegations written in fall out sheets. No apologies, just tough luck.
Deborah:
--- Quote from: ""Guest"" ---You were suppose to get into trouble if it turns out you knew something that came out and you didn't write it on fall out. That is how I did it with my groups. I would always tell me kids that fallout was a way for them to stay out of trouble, not get in to it.
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With whom? Sure didn't keep them out of trouble with their peers. How many kids were victims of retaliation?
Deborah:
--- Quote from: ""Guest"" ---I have no problem admitting that it is not effective. The most meaningful "fallout" that I received from kids was when I was able to help cultivate an atmosphere of genuine caring within the Peer Group. Then the kids would come to me on their own and tell me things that they were concerned about among their peers.
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The question: why weren't they coming to you with issue about themselves that caused them concern?
Might've been genuine, but I can see how this could just be a different technique for narcing.
How did you determine if a kid was guilty of the allegations? How did you know who was lying? Did you ever apologize for wrongly punishing?
Anonymous:
the fallout system is a load of crap. first, kids dont narc becouse not minding your own bussiness is as unethical as rape or murder. especially for kids who grow up in urban areas, everyone knows snitches get stitches.
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