So because I don?t believe in unconditional love then all program parents don?t either?.Hmmmm . Why would I predict this conclusion from you DJ?
I may be unique who knows? ?.. I don?t take my daughters love for granted and expect her to love me unconditionally because I am her father, never have never will. If you don?t nurture it and feed it then it could die? you may expect your kids (if you have any) to love you just because you brought them into the world but I just don?t believe this. I feel sorry for you if you take that bond for granted.
Let's examine this further, shall we?
Who's kid: "I love you, daddy."
Who: "I would love you, too, if only you... (fill in the blank)"You're a sick MF'er, Whooter. Most "normal" parents would lay down their life without thought or hesitation for their kid. You'd have to think about it, evaluate, decide if you love her at the moment (depending on her behavior), and then act.
You really are sicker than I had estimated previously. It makes sense if people view you as a sociopath: people (like your kid) are
objects not deserving of innate love or respect unless they please you. Fascinating.
I don't take anyone else's love for granted, but I do love my own familiy unconditionally and would without hesitation sacrifice my own life for any one of theirs. Don't feel sorry for me, Whooter, my priorities are intact. You should feel sorry for your kid who isn't worthy of your love unless she earns it. :cry: