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Anonymous:
Here is another example of program parent playing the victim card. This one actually has the gall to suggest the kid should thank her for being taken out of one of the most abusive programs that exist. So the kid gets put in a horrible program for two months, the mother finally realizes the obvious truth that an internet search would of revealed and go gets him. Then she complains that he isn't grateful for being released from the abusive program, and surprised it didn't improve his behavior.  Now this program parent has resorted to name calling like an angry child having a tantrum, how mature of them. Program parents are absolutely unbelievable sometimes.

Anonymous:
Oh for Christsakes give it a rest, frog-eyes!

FemanonFatal2.0:
I think Pam's situation is one of those unique ones, where you cant exactly blame them but you cant exactly excuse them either.

my question is where do you draw the line between helping and enabling? and when you do, how do you act upon self preservation without abandoning the child. I think a lot of parents get this equation backwards. They abandon their kids way before they ever consider actually helping them. I don't think this was the case of this program parent. I think she did try, and since her son has come home has continued to help him. The decision she made to send her kid away was only after an extreme situation which is actually rare among program parents. This doesn't excuse her of not doing the proper research, however her actions after she did come across the right information is what sets her apart from the rest... and I really don't think she implied that he should be grateful and act accordingly, I'm sure shes just a bit jaded and wished her son was more well behaved in general.

So there you go Che, soak it up. A real live exception to my theory, and I'm not too proud to admit it.

Anonymous:

--- Quote from: "Miss Antsy Pam" ---Come on people....crucify me...have fun.  I posted the TRUTH...that is the only thing that matters when it all boils down to the end.  Knock yourself out posting and bashing parents that are trying to help put an end to the industry.  You have no idea what I do or what contribution I make to this site and other anti BM sites...so have fun you spineless simpletons
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thank you on behalf of a kid whose parents never cared.

Che Gookin:

--- Quote from: "FemanonFatal2.0" ---I think Pam's situation is one of those unique ones, where you cant exactly blame them but you cant exactly excuse them either.

my question is where do you draw the line between helping and enabling? and when you do, how do you act upon self preservation without abandoning the child. I think a lot of parents get this equation backwards. They abandon their kids way before they ever consider actually helping them. I don't think this was the case of this program parent. I think she did try, and since her son has come home has continued to help him. The decision she made to send her kid away was only after an extreme situation which is actually rare among program parents. This doesn't excuse her of not doing the proper research, however her actions after she did come across the right information is what sets her apart from the rest... and I really don't think she implied that he should be grateful and act accordingly, I'm sure shes just a bit jaded and wished her son was more well behaved in general.

So there you go Che, soak it up. A real live exception to my theory, and I'm not too proud to admit it.
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Well that's what happens when you don't listen to me more sweetie.

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