Treatment Abuse, Behavior Modification, Thought Reform > World Wide Association of Specialty Programs and Schools (WWASPS)
WWASP Experiences
Anonymous:
--- Quote from: "FemanonFatal2.0" ---I think Pam's situation is one of those unique ones, where you cant exactly blame them but you cant exactly excuse them either.
my question is where do you draw the line between helping and enabling? and when you do, how do you act upon self preservation without abandoning the child. I think a lot of parents get this equation backwards. They abandon their kids way before they ever consider actually helping them. I don't think this was the case of this program parent. I think she did try, and since her son has come home has continued to help him. The decision she made to send her kid away was only after an extreme situation which is actually rare among program parents. This doesn't excuse her of not doing the proper research, however her actions after she did come across the right information is what sets her apart from the rest... and I really don't think she implied that he should be grateful and act accordingly, I'm sure shes just a bit jaded and wished her son was more well behaved in general.
So there you go Che, soak it up. A real live exception to my theory, and I'm not too proud to admit it.
--- End quote ---
Thanks for the exception....you people can't make me feel worse than I already do. I agree with all of you...there is no excuse, I made a huge mistake that I will pay for the rest of my life!
Anonymous:
Make sure you have all the facts before you judge....
1) my son was not kidnapped/escorted
2) I inspected the facility BEFORE he was placed
3) We looked at schools together
4) HE chose Casa over the other options we had researched TOGETHER
there...have at it
teachback:
Great, it looks like you made the perfect life choice for your son, good for you......
Keep telling yourself whatever it takes for you to feel better about not raising your own kid.
Anonymous:
--- Quote from: "SDGS" ---
--- Quote from: "Miss Antsy Pam" ---Come on people....crucify me...have fun. I posted the TRUTH...that is the only thing that matters when it all boils down to the end. Knock yourself out posting and bashing parents that are trying to help put an end to the industry. You have no idea what I do or what contribution I make to this site and other anti BM sites...so have fun you spineless simpletons
--- End quote ---
thank you on behalf of a kid whose parents never cared.
--- End quote ---
You are most welcome....I am so sorry your parents never cared. I am sorry for ALL the parents that didn't ,and still don't, CARE OR BELIEVE what was done to you. That is a HUGE part of WHY I am here...to apologize for the parents that NEVER cared. I CARE otherwise I would just go my merry way and live in denial of what I did!
At least I have the GUTS to put it out there and let everyone bash me
Anonymous:
--- Quote from: "Teachback" ---Great, it looks like you made the perfect life choice for your son, good for you......
Keep telling yourself whatever it takes for you to feel better about not raising your own kid.
--- End quote ---
I DID raise my own kid. hmm 60 days out of 21 years..SURE I didn't raise my own kid??? 99% of the people in our lives are ENVIOUS of the relationship I have with my son. What he and I share is something so special and cherished by both of us. That is all I need to "feel good" about myself. We ALL make BAD choices at times, but what you DO after the bad choice is what matters MORE!
Navigation
[0] Message Index
[#] Next page
[*] Previous page
Go to full version