Treatment Abuse, Behavior Modification, Thought Reform > Hyde Schools
i'm an incoming senior....to parents interested
Anonymous:
gary eskow...i'd love to get your email, or maybe a phone number(but i understand if you don't want to put that up on the internet). if not, at least drop me an email at wprocida@hyde.edu.
-billy procida
Ursus:
--- Quote from: ""billy pro"" ---gary eskow...i'd love to get your email, or maybe a phone number(but i understand if you don't want to put that up on the internet). if not, at least drop me an email at scribeny@aol.com
www.garyeskow.com
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Anonymous:
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--- Quote from: ""billy pro"" ---gary eskow...i'd love to get your email, or maybe a phone number(but i understand if you don't want to put that up on the internet). if not, at least drop me an email at scribeny@aol.com
www.garyeskow.com
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Great that you are doing so well Billy. Truly I am happy for you, but lets get real Billy. Answer a few questions for us.
1) Is it ok for a Headmaster not to report a gang rape to authorities?
2) Is it ok for staff to humiliate, shame, intimidate and physically abuse a child in the name of "character education?"
3) After being diagnosed with a concussion and going to the hospital, is it ok not to check on this same kid all night and instead to put them on 2-4 the following morning?
4) Is it ok to let underage teens runaway into the night without doing ONE thing to stop them and make sure they are safe?
5) Is it ok to listen to kids talk about being so depressed that they want to commit suicide, yet not refer them to a professional psychologist?
6) Is it ok as a staff member and an example to 200 kids to get drunk at night in the dorm?
7) Is it ok for the owner of the school to have an affair with a student?
8) Is it ok to have a known pediphile on campus knowing the female students are afraid of him?
Oh Billy, I could go on and on but it is you that I believe is too immature and inexperienced to understand that this is not acceptable behavior for a school or staff who are responsible for kids safety. You won't understand this until you are a parent. I truly hope you print all of this out so in years to come you can look back on it and shake your head in disbelief as to how foolish you were. I think your heart is in the right place, but you don't have enough experience in life to understand what is being pointed out here.
Your parents should be proud of you. I can tell you are a good kid who is really trying to "raise the bar" for yourself and for that I admire you, but believe me you have a lot to learn about a school that has abusive practices and is a dangerous place for a child with true problems.
I would love to hear back from you in about 10 years. Oh, and by the way, don't kid yourself about Hyde and how little they read this site. I know for a fact that the big man over in Bath is a regular as well as many other faculty. Some think it is funny and others are happy to see some of what is written, some are not. There are those who are hoping this site will go away by not posting replys and defenses, but this is doubtful.
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Anonymous:
--- Quote from: ""Guest"" ---
--- Quote from: ""Ursus"" ---
--- Quote from: ""billy pro"" ---gary eskow...i'd love to get your email, or maybe a phone number(but i understand if you don't want to put that up on the internet). if not, at least drop me an email at scribeny@aol.com
www.garyeskow.com
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Great that you are doing so well Billy. Truly I am happy for you, but lets get real Billy. Answer a few questions for us.
1) Is it ok for a Headmaster not to report a gang rape to authorities?
2) Is it ok for staff to humiliate, shame, intimidate and physically abuse a child in the name of "character education?"
3) After being diagnosed with a concussion and going to the hospital, is it ok not to check on this same kid all night and instead to put them on 2-4 the following morning?
4) Is it ok to let underage teens runaway into the night without doing ONE thing to stop them and make sure they are safe?
5) Is it ok to listen to kids talk about being so depressed that they want to commit suicide, yet not refer them to a professional psychologist?
6) Is it ok as a staff member and an example to 200 kids to get drunk at night in the dorm?
7) Is it ok for the owner of the school to have an affair with a student?
8) Is it ok to have a known pediphile on campus knowing the female students are afraid of him?
Oh Billy, I could go on and on but it is you that I believe is too immature and inexperienced to understand that this is not acceptable behavior for a school or staff who are responsible for kids safety. You won't understand this until you are a parent. I truly hope you print all of this out so in years to come you can look back on it and shake your head in disbelief as to how foolish you were. I think your heart is in the right place, but you don't have enough experience in life to understand what is being pointed out here.
Your parents should be proud of you. I can tell you are a good kid who is really trying to "raise the bar" for yourself and for that I admire you, but believe me you have a lot to learn about a school that has abusive practices and is a dangerous place for a child with true problems.
I would love to hear back from you in about 10 years. Oh, and by the way, don't kid yourself about Hyde and how little they read this site. I know for a fact that the big man over in Bath is a regular as well as many other faculty. Some think it is funny and others are happy to see some of what is written, some are not. There are those who are hoping this site will go away by not posting replys and defenses, but this is doubtful.
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Billy, you are obviously not reading through many of these posts or you would see that Gary has invited many to contact him. I strongly suggest you read some of the posts from former students, faculty and parents to get a better idea about Hyde and some of the things you are not aware of that have been going on for years.
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Ursus:
Hey Billy, I hope you are still enjoying your expedition to Europe and taking in all sorts of new sights and perspectives! I've been there four or five times myself, and have always enjoyed the change in scenery.
--- Quote from: ""Billy Procida"" ---Urs, it's unfortunate all I can call you is that. That you must hide behind a mask, a fasade(probably not spelled right). I was really hoping you were a younger former student so the childish-ness could be easily accounted for. It's unfortunate you cannot see something from a somewhat-objective point of view because as I read your post, it's apparant the tone behind it.
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--- Quote from: ""Billy Procida"" ---I don't go complain about it on a website with a one-way view, possibly an ignorant one, patronizing a teenager behind an anonymous nickname. Asking a higher up at hyde about what they think about this site(b/c they don't moniter it, but they do know about it and take a peek around every once and awhile) and he said (i'm paraphrasing)"I'm willing to have a conersation face-to-face or even over the phone. But I will not have a discussion under a mask of anonymity."
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If you actually read even a tiny tiny wee little bitty bit of the posts in this here Forum, Billy, you would never have been suffering the impression that we are each but a "teenager behind an anonymous nickname." As far as your impression of me is concerned, you really do not have to go back very far at all to learn that I am of your parents' generation and may, in fact, be even older than they are... This doesn't really concern me, of course; at my age it is a bit of a titillation to be mistaken for someone so much younger! :lol: :rofl: More importantly, it does very much point to your lack of "doing your homework", so to speak. That is, you come to this forum and lecture us loquaciously as to your greater wisdom about what Hyde is all about, I might even go so far as to add what Life is all about, yet you haven't even bothered to read about our side of the story. Put your money where your mouth is, Billy! ::poke::
As to the response you received from the "higher up" you consulted about this site, it sounds to me like a slick piece of chicanery: he was just trying to sidetrack you from giving any importance to this site yourself! The mindset he allegedly espoused is in the same league as the mindset of someone who claims "I only believe news story such-and-such if I hear it on one of the mainstream newscasts/read it in a mainstream press" or "I only buy brand name clothes/household goods; that is to say, only that which is status quo is worthy of my attention. Pahleez, what an impoverished world that would be!
--- Quote ---CONSULT, v.i.
To seek another's disapproval of a course already decided on. http://www.alcyone.com/max/lit/devils/c.html
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Most of the people who post on the Hyde School forum do so as Anons. Some of the Anons go a step further and attribute nicknames to their posts, though still as Anons. Very few of us post as Avatars. And extremely few of us take on/make no bones about our real life identities. We all have our reasons for this, and it really should not in any way reflect on the veracity of what we speak, or the integrity of our intentions. If we were just a hoodlum bunch of malcontented ne'er-do-wells, I hardly think you would have received the volume of concerned and thoughtful replies to your posts that you have. We could have easily blown you out of here with a juggernaut of ribald insults and character assassination.
The problem with using your (Hyde) email address, Billy, is that Hyde can, and probably does at this point, read your emails. If you had a separate email address, the likelihood that you would get some response from people here would increase. Unfortunately, therein is still the issue of the conveying of one's IP address, which some people have issues about. If you would feel up to taking on Avatar on this forum, you would have the option of private mailing other Avatars here (no IP address exchange), although, unfortunately, Anons cannot participate in that.
Don't like my smiley faces? Sorry to hear that. Sometimes they get the message across better than I can say in words. Sometimes I worry that my words may seem too harsh, but I feel they are too important to sanitize into a more palatable form. I try to convey my intentions of good will to you, Billy, in those hokey childish smiley faces; a sentiment that, I'm sure you'll agree, is hardly "childish" at all.
-Urs ::dove::
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