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Samara:
Rudy didn't have a problem with most girls. In fact, we got along well and he never targeted me. But - he is notorious for a reason. I was in the raps for his favorites. And of course he was nice to parents! They all did that tap dance. I've read many posts from many people (not to mention people I know off site) - we all share these memories. (Even the ones who are pro-program.) Staff repeated their disclosures multiple times. Young staff did it with shame. Older staff did it with bravado. Repeated disclosures is why so many of us know these stories. I have been very very circumspect about  staff and their stories. I don't know why I feel the need to protect them, because it was absolutely unethical to share them.  (And shows lousy screening by HR.) Same way I won't call out kids for their disclosures.

Whooter:

--- Quote from: "Samara" ---Rudy didn't have a problem with most girls. In fact, we got along well and he never targeted me. But - he is notorious for a reason. I was in the raps for his favorites. And of course he was nice to parents! They all did that tap dance. I've read many posts from many people (not to mention people I know off site) - we all share these memories. (Even the ones who are pro-program.) Staff repeated their disclosures multiple times. Young staff did it with shame. Older staff did it with bravado. Repeated disclosures is why so many of us know these stories. I have been very very circumspect about  staff and their stories. I don't know why I feel the need to protect them, because it was absolutely unethical to share them.  (And shows lousy screening by HR.) Same way I won't call out kids for their disclosures.
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Like I said, I didnt see Rudy behind closed doors.  I only reported from my perspective and what I heard from my daughter and others there.  I was impressed at the time that he talked about his short comings and an accident that lead to the death (that he caused) of another human being in front of strangers.  But sure he could be a total different person with the door closed.  My daughter never saw that side of him.



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Joel:
Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010

Anne Bonney:

--- Quote from: "Whooter" ---
Like I said, I didnt see Rudy behind closed doors.
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Which is what I've been saying all along.  You cannot, no matter how much knowledge you think you have, understand what it's like to be subjected to this kind of "therapy".  Ever.  We have a different vantage point.  We can pick up on the subtleties of the loaded language and glossy advertisements.  We can put it in a context that you'll never be able to get.


--- Quote ---  But sure he could be a total different person with the door closed.  My daughter never saw that side of him.
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That you know of.  Maybe she didn't, but you don't really know.

Joel:
Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010

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