Alot of parents find that they can scam their insurance companies into paying for a "treatment" program like Second Nature or SUWS so they can fuck off to Europe on vacation.
Yup. That was my dad. 2.5 years at $3K+ a month. Have no idea how he managed to pull that one off, but he's good at finding loopholes, since he's a lawyer. Got out of having to go to Vietnam, too, despite being a Westpointer.
Any program that has a manditory 12 step program shows a huge red flag
Absolutely, especially, since as you said, that even if someone is court ordered to attend 12 step, they are not required to participate. However, if it is part of a program, it is hardly consentual, like it is in the public sector. I would venture to say that this is even the case for adults who are sentenced to a rehab facility that uses 12 step over jail. In that environment, there is a certain level of requiring to comply before you will be released. (but not as much as a program, I would think.) Fortunately, a lot of rehabs, from what I've heard, are moving away from the 12 step model. One of the biggest issues with me regarding 12 step is the religion. Even though the general understanding of "god" is flexible, it's still there. You can't move beyond the second step without it. You are required to believe in god, or at least
a god. That's bullshit.
I mean, look, it's one thing if someone decides to check themselves in, ok? But if someone is sent to a 12 step facility by the courts, then fuck yeah, I have a problem with it. I mentioned in another thread about how there were a couple of people I knew who decided to take the jail term over rehab, because they knew they were going to have to deal with 12 step in a residential setting if they didn't.
I'm also not exactly sure who thought it was such a brilliant idea to stick a bunch of junkies and drunks together and assume that they would be good at keeping each other sober. (Bill W., I'm assuming.) Not like it's another person's job to help keep someone sober, anyway. It's nobody's fucking business. That's the other problem with 12 step, and the TC industry as a whole.