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« Reply #2505 on: May 17, 2007, 10:53:11 AM »
didn't someone just order you to die, who?  go DIE then!
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« Reply #2506 on: May 17, 2007, 02:03:46 PM »
Don't give this poster (do not even refer to him by name, if necessary make up a nick name for him not of his choosing) anything to respond to. The internet is full of weirdos like this one. They just want to type and know that somebody will read what they write, that is what this is all about. He will take on any role that brings him attention and an audience. Somewhat sad, isn't it?  :-? You should all view him as an example of what happens when a father chooses to have a daughter forcibly incarcerated, loneliness.
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« Reply #2507 on: May 17, 2007, 02:28:26 PM »
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Niles, much of what you said seems to be anger driven, weak on facts and heavy on the emotion.  So let me try to boil off a little of that and speak directly to one of your points, if I may.

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Parents of messed up kids are not experts on messed up kids, now are they? A "consumer experience" or review is not a replacement for professional, educated advice and evaluation.

There seems to be a bit of common ground here……..

If there were presently more updated research and studies available then we would not have to have this particular discussion, but since there isn’t we need to get comfortable with what we have.  Most businesses which don’t have studies completed (i.e. day care agencies, adoption agencies, preschools, wilderness etc.) typically use word of mouth and encourage the potential client to seek out other resources to further educate themselves.  What has been extremely successful and a good way to know about a particular program is to talk to some parents who have had kids attend.  This gives a parent  a chance to address issues that are shared by concerned parents. i.e. safety, communication, success, how the school operates, talk about the downside etc.The programs also have the parents get the child evaluated prior to accepting an application for admission (if they don’t, you should get this done on your own).  Another avenue for information is to speak with your childs therapist, if they are seeing one, or school counselor and pediatrician.
If you combine all the above a parent should have enough information to make a decision of whether placing a child outside the home is the right one for their family.
Hope this clears it up a little bit.


I replied to you,but I did not read anything you wrote.
You are boring bleh bleh bleh bleh...and you know it.
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« Reply #2508 on: May 17, 2007, 05:03:02 PM »
DELETE MULTIPOST.

KELLY WHERES MY DELETE BUTTON  :P
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DannyB on the internet:I CALLED A LAWYER TODAY TO SEE IF I COULD SUE YOUR ASSES FOR DOING THIS BUT THAT WAS NOT POSSIBLE.

CCMGirl on program restraints: "DON\'T TAZ ME BRO!!!!!"

TheWho on program survivors: "From where I sit I see all the anit-program[sic] people doing all the complaining and crying."

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« Reply #2509 on: May 17, 2007, 05:03:47 PM »
DELETE MULTIPOST
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DannyB on the internet:I CALLED A LAWYER TODAY TO SEE IF I COULD SUE YOUR ASSES FOR DOING THIS BUT THAT WAS NOT POSSIBLE.

CCMGirl on program restraints: "DON\'T TAZ ME BRO!!!!!"

TheWho on program survivors: "From where I sit I see all the anit-program[sic] people doing all the complaining and crying."

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« Reply #2510 on: May 17, 2007, 05:05:40 PM »
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Niles, much of what you said seems to be anger driven, weak on facts and heavy on the emotion.  So let me try to boil off a little of that and speak directly to one of your points, if I may.

Assertive, empty, un-proven, ad hominem attacks, again? Now? After all this time?

'Who' are you kidding?  :rofl: I called you on your lack of evidence to back up your assertions, and on your logical fallacies, and you say Im short on facts and heavy on emotion? This isn't Struggling Teens.

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If there were presently more updated research and studies available then we would not have to have this particular discussion, but since there isn’t we need to get comfortable with what we have.

No, until there is evidence to demonstrate they work, there is no evidence to demonstrate they work, thus they are "unproven". That's a really bullshit excuse to go by anecdotes, and to ignore the glaring lack of any evidence that should be abundant in the time the last 30 years has passed.

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Most businesses which don’t have studies completed (i.e. day care agencies, adoption agencies, preschools, wilderness etc.) typically use word of mouth and encourage the potential client to seek out other resources to further educate themselves.  

Marketing is not proof of efficacy! You can not justify marketing as proof of effectiveness!

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What has been extremely successful and a good way to know about a particular program is to talk to some parents who have had kids attend.  

Anecdotes still do not count as proof. It is not emprical data!


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This gives a parent  a chance to address issues that are shared by concerned parents. i.e. safety, communication, success, how the school operates, talk about the downside etc.

There you go with your ad-hoc reasoning again  :roll:

A parent of a child with real or imagined (but undiagnosed) problems who has put their child through an unproven wilderness program with no proof of efficacy or any evidence they even diagnose issues before putting the kid through it, is nothing more than a consumer of a service.

Not an expert on anything.

Furthermore, it is hardly a secret that programs will twist and manipulate and spin (Like you are right now...) in approval of isolation, their definition of sucess, or try to minimize downsides with talk of "tough but fair" or wahtnot.

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The programs also have the parents get the child evaluated prior to accepting an application for admission (if they don’t, you should get this done on your own).  

Do they? What about programs that take children with no Dx? What about wilderness programs that takes kids with a Dx requiring a stay in a hospital, not dirt?

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Another avenue for information is to speak with your childs therapist, if they are seeing one, or school counselor and pediatrician.

Wow, good advice! You forgot to say not an edcon.

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If you combine all the above a parent should have enough information to make a decision of whether placing a child outside the home is the right one for their family.
Hope this clears it up a little bit.


Talking to real professionals about real treatment for real problems with proof they work is one thing, talking to manipulated parents who have a vested interest in believing the program worked for them (and just maybe their kid too) is another.

Parents of kids with problems are not experts on kids, or problems, or kids with problems because they are the parent of them. More often than not their abuse or negligence is the cause of it to begin with.

Sticking to experts who are not out to make a buck off of a program's referral fee, who stick to proven treatment that works - and only when there is a problem that actually needs treatment - is the way to go, not talking to emotionally wound up non-expert parents who go by word of mouth marketing for a business out to make money.
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DannyB on the internet:I CALLED A LAWYER TODAY TO SEE IF I COULD SUE YOUR ASSES FOR DOING THIS BUT THAT WAS NOT POSSIBLE.

CCMGirl on program restraints: "DON\'T TAZ ME BRO!!!!!"

TheWho on program survivors: "From where I sit I see all the anit-program[sic] people doing all the complaining and crying."

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« Reply #2511 on: May 17, 2007, 05:54:05 PM »
Niles wrote:
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Parents of kids with problems are not experts on kids, or problems, or kids with problems because they are the parent of them. More often than not their abuse or negligence is the cause of it to begin with.

Sticking to experts who are not out to make a buck off of a program's referral fee…..


Long way around the conversation but it seems we agree, professional advice etc.  except for the parent referral, which I think is key because they are the closest to the child and know their needs best.  So let me reiterate:
Most businesses which don’t have studies completed (i.e. day care agencies, adoption agencies, preschools, wilderness etc.) typically use word of mouth and encourage the potential client to seek out other resources to further educate themselves. What has been extremely successful and a good way to know about a particular program is to talk to some parents who have had kids attend. This gives a parent a chance to address issues that are shared by concerned parents. i.e. safety, communication, success, how the school operates, talk about the upside/downside etc.The programs also have the parents get the child evaluated prior to accepting an application for admission (if they don’t, you should get this done on your own). Another avenue for information is to speak with your childs therapist, if they are seeing one, or school counselor and pediatrician. If you combine all the above a parent should have enough information to make a decision of whether placing a child outside the home is the right one for their family.
Hope this clears it up a little bit.
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« Reply #2512 on: May 17, 2007, 06:28:01 PM »
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Niles wrote:
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Parents of kids with problems are not experts on kids, or problems, or kids with problems because they are the parent of them. More often than not their abuse or negligence is the cause of it to begin with.

Sticking to experts who are not out to make a buck off of a program's referral fee…..

Long way around the conversation but it seems we agree, professional advice etc.  except for the parent referral, which I think is key because they are the closest to the child and know their needs best.  So let me reiterate:
Most businesses which don’t have studies completed (i.e. day care agencies, adoption agencies, preschools, wilderness etc.) typically use word of mouth and encourage the potential client to seek out other resources to further educate themselves. What has been extremely successful and a good way to know about a particular program is to talk to some parents who have had kids attend. This gives a parent a chance to address issues that are shared by concerned parents. i.e. safety, communication, success, how the school operates, talk about the upside/downside etc.The programs also have the parents get the child evaluated prior to accepting an application for admission (if they don’t, you should get this done on your own). Another avenue for information is to speak with your childs therapist, if they are seeing one, or school counselor and pediatrician. If you combine all the above a parent should have enough information to make a decision of whether placing a child outside the home is the right one for their family.
Hope this clears it up a little bit.


Why do you have to reiterate why businesses try to use word of mouth as marketing, then repeat going to people in bold... after Niles has made his point?

Why can't you just leave out the word-of-mouth program parents pushing for free months of tuition from the equation?  ::bangin::
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« Reply #2513 on: May 17, 2007, 06:38:51 PM »
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Why can't you just leave out the word-of-mouth program parents pushing for free months of tuition from the equation?


I did !!  I never mentioned anything about free tuition because it isn’t part of the process.  We need to stay focused on getting the kids the help they need and determining a process which best serves them.  Parents who have been thru the process are a good source of information for new parents....
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« Reply #2514 on: May 17, 2007, 07:06:58 PM »
Don't respond.
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« Reply #2515 on: May 17, 2007, 09:01:38 PM »
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Oh come on that’s only the tip of the ice berg, lets be honest, no exaggerating here, we need to be credible or no parents will believe us.  Here is a more complete account:

No food.
Sexual abused in everyway.
Repeat beatings.
No water.
No bathroom.
No bedding.
Little items I had were stolen, like my sweaty hat and shoes.
My Bible ripped and wrecked.
What little food I got, stolen from me.
Forced to drink cum, piss, eat shit.
Duct-taped from head to toe for no reason. (my favorite)
No toilet paper.
Had rocks and items thrown at me.
Locked in a hot, wooden box.
Forced to eat paper.
Forced to be naked for a week.
Thrown into the ocean during a typhoon. ( I think he would keep blowing back ,would'nt he?)
Kicked down a hill and had logs thrown on me.
Had a chair slammed into my gut.
Obtained more skin diseases than a POW in Vietnam.
Forced to carry "sandbags" of rocks up and down hills.

http://wwf.fornits.com/viewtopic.php?t= ... c&start=80


Why would theWho copy/paste this from a survivor's story and add his own disgusting comments and make fun of child abuse?

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There was an event that struck me as kind of absurd and a little funny, at the time, that’s all.


http://wwf.fornits.com/viewtopic.php?t=21604&start=10


Oh, that's all. What a disgusting person to spend their time making fun of child abuse victims.

TheWho: making fun of child abuse victims.
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« Reply #2516 on: May 17, 2007, 09:07:42 PM »
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Why can't you just leave out the word-of-mouth program parents pushing for free months of tuition from the equation?

I did !!  I never mentioned anything about free tuition because it isn’t part of the process.  We need to stay focused on getting the kids the help they need and determining a process which best serves them.  Parents who have been thru the process are a good source of information for new parents....
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« Reply #2517 on: May 17, 2007, 09:14:12 PM »
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Tue Dec 13, 2005 10:58 am    
Sorry -- I cant speak to what I dont know. I am telling of my own experiences. I know first hand of people who were turned down by ASR after they were evaluated by a third party. I am not saying all kids are required because I dont know that, none of us do. But they require an evaluation of atleast some children. Kids that have graduated, look back and remember it was called the "Bubble" because it was a safe place to be. Maybe that is a double edge sword, because after they left it was difficult being outside the "Bubble" and readjusting to everyday life. But during the time there, atleast some of them, felt they were in a safe place, maybe all of them (but I never met all of them so I dont really know).

I do have to say that anyone who claims to know every aspect or every program, is really fooling himself and the one flinging the BS. You should speak about what you know about. What I am talking about is what I personally know. If you talk about being abused in a facility I know nothing about, I will believe you.


http://wwf.fornits.com/viewtopic.php?t=12820&start=120

As stated before, theWho is a liar.
This survivor spoke of a facility TheWho knows nothing about, and he presumably and sadistically mocked this survivor.
He is a liar, a hypocrite and a cruel person.

 That much has been proven without a doubt!
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« Reply #2518 on: May 17, 2007, 09:37:34 PM »
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Why can't you just leave out the word-of-mouth program parents pushing for free months of tuition from the equation?


I did !!  I never mentioned anything about free tuition because it isn’t part of the process.  We need to stay focused on getting the kids the help they need and determining a process which best serves them.  Parents who have been thru the process are a good source of information for new parents....

How come I was never told about this free tuition deal?  Nope... Just doesnt sound fair does it?
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« Reply #2519 on: May 17, 2007, 09:41:05 PM »
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