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« Reply #2490 on: May 16, 2007, 05:26:54 PM »
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BTW that was me posting anon before.



I'm watching you!


No it wasnt, it may have looked like you but it was me posting anon......  and no, I am watching you !!

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« Reply #2491 on: May 16, 2007, 05:28:55 PM »
Niles wrote:
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Excuse me?

Earth to The Who - you are asserting that programs can or do save children and teenagers, yet you have absolutely ZERO data to back that up.

Absolutely none.

If you have it, present it. Show your work, and cite your sources. Otherwise, shut up and stop spewing empty nonsense


I think if we based the safety of the wilderness programs merely on the risk of death based on the tens of thousands that have gone through wilderness it would be a milestone in and of itself, but it is obviously not a marketing strategy I would endorse.  Although, most parents are aware of their Childs present safety and this is typically used as a baseline or Benchmark if you will .   I think the lion share of people/parents realize that wilderness programs are extremely effective… But many parents are looking for more evidence and what the programs typically do is refer people to others who have completed the program, like most successful businesses do (adoption agencies do this also).  This gives you a chance to speak directly to a parent who was in the same position as they are now and talk a little about their struggles and the pros and cons of sending a child to wilderness camp.  This is very helpful because you can get some tips on proceeding to the next step and allows the parent to get a perspective of what worked and what didn’t in their specific case.  Of course you need to do a little outside research on your own because they are going to refer you to the kids who were the most successful, but then this holds true in every business.  They are not going to give you the numbers of parents whos kids did not do as well in the program.
What I typically tell parents is to do their homework, talk to the school/ counselors, the childs therapist if she/he has one and talk to a few different wilderness and TBS if that is your focus.  They each bring something unique into play and not all can be a good fit for every child.

Hope this helps.
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« Reply #2492 on: May 16, 2007, 07:58:17 PM »
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I think if we based the safety of the wilderness programs merely on the risk of death based on the tens of thousands that have gone through wilderness it would be a milestone in and of itself,


How do you know tens of thousands of kids have gone through wilderness??
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« Reply #2493 on: May 16, 2007, 09:56:44 PM »
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Deborah wrote:
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Excuse me?
Earth to The Who - you are asserting that programs can or do save children and teenagers, yet you have absolutely ZERO data to back that up.
Absolutely none.
If you have it, present it. Show your work, and cite your sources. Otherwise, shut up and stop spewing empty nonsense


I didn't write that Who. Edit your post and remove my name.
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« Reply #2494 on: May 16, 2007, 10:17:24 PM »
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Deborah wrote:
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Excuse me?
Earth to The Who - you are asserting that programs can or do save children and teenagers, yet you have absolutely ZERO data to back that up.
Absolutely none.
If you have it, present it. Show your work, and cite your sources. Otherwise, shut up and stop spewing empty nonsense

I didn't write that Who. Edit your post and remove my name.


I FUCKING WROTE IT
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DannyB on the internet:I CALLED A LAWYER TODAY TO SEE IF I COULD SUE YOUR ASSES FOR DOING THIS BUT THAT WAS NOT POSSIBLE.

CCMGirl on program restraints: "DON\'T TAZ ME BRO!!!!!"

TheWho on program survivors: "From where I sit I see all the anit-program[sic] people doing all the complaining and crying."

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« Reply #2495 on: May 16, 2007, 10:28:35 PM »
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I FUCKING WROTE IT

What?? How the hell did THAT happen? Wtf???
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« Reply #2496 on: May 16, 2007, 10:29:52 PM »
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I think if we based the safety of the wilderness programs merely on the risk of death based on the tens of thousands that have gone through wilderness it would be a milestone in and of itself, but it is obviously not a marketing strategy I would endorse.  

Clearly, as "Well, they don't die too much" hardly has anything at all to do with "we find problems and fix them without abuse, bullshit, quackery, or excuses to keep them longer to make more money" which is what they should be doing.

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Although, most parents are aware of their Childs present safety and this is typically used as a baseline or Benchmark if you will .  

Uh, no, the baseline or "benchmark" of therapy is its effectiveness, not its safety. Safety is a concern but not a qualifier. If it is useless, why does its safety matter?

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I think the lion share of people/parents realize that wilderness programs are extremely effective

Realize? Uh, considering there is no proof of such a reality, there is no realization to be had, only a belief, and an ill-begotten one at that.

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But many parents are looking for more evidence and what the programs typically do is refer people to others who have completed the program, like most successful businesses do (adoption agencies do this also).  

Anecdotes are no replacement for redivisim studies with a sufficient sample size. Also, you can't justify not treating a child becuase they were sent to the most commercially successful wilderness camp becuase its good business practice. Ethics are something the entire "industry" lacks.

Or, as Morbo would say IT DOES NOT WORK THAT WAY.


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This gives you a chance to speak directly to a parent who was in the same position as they are now and talk a little about their struggles and the pros and cons of sending a child to wilderness camp.  

Anecdotes STILL don't count, and misleading vividness about the imaginary pros and cons cooked up by ed-cons do not count as real advice considering they are based on unproven (or just bullshit) assertions and beliefs in the first place.

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This is very helpful because you can get some tips on proceeding to the next step and allows the parent to get a perspective of what worked and what didn’t in their specific case.

Anecdotes... hello? And tips from someone who has a vested interest in belief that it worked (Oh, misleading vividness rules!) is still bullshit. Parents of messed up kids are not experts on messed up kids, now are they? A "consumer experience" or review is not a replacement for professional, educated advice and evaluation.

Which kids in any program, wilderness included, do not get.

 
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Of course you need to do a little outside research on your own because they are going to refer you to the kids who were the most successful, but then this holds true in every business.  They are not going to give you the numbers of parents whos kids did not do as well in the program.

Wow, you finally say something thats... 100% true and honest! Wow.

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What I typically tell parents is to do their homework, talk to the school/ counselors, the childs therapist if she/he has one and talk to a few different wilderness and TBS if that is your focus.  They each bring something unique into play and not all can be a good fit for every child.

Hope this helps.


Too bad you don't tell them about the bullshit of the industry, the COMPLETE lack of proof of any help being done, any recidivism studies, or anything scientific or rigorous, and that you're not an expert on jack squat except justifying things to yourself!
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DannyB on the internet:I CALLED A LAWYER TODAY TO SEE IF I COULD SUE YOUR ASSES FOR DOING THIS BUT THAT WAS NOT POSSIBLE.

CCMGirl on program restraints: "DON\'T TAZ ME BRO!!!!!"

TheWho on program survivors: "From where I sit I see all the anit-program[sic] people doing all the complaining and crying."

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« Reply #2497 on: May 16, 2007, 10:31:06 PM »
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I FUCKING WROTE IT
What?? How the hell did THAT happen? Wtf???


IE didn't have the fornits login cookie and I was too lazy to log in.

I usually use Firefox...
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DannyB on the internet:I CALLED A LAWYER TODAY TO SEE IF I COULD SUE YOUR ASSES FOR DOING THIS BUT THAT WAS NOT POSSIBLE.

CCMGirl on program restraints: "DON\'T TAZ ME BRO!!!!!"

TheWho on program survivors: "From where I sit I see all the anit-program[sic] people doing all the complaining and crying."

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« Reply #2498 on: May 17, 2007, 12:22:40 AM »
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« Reply #2499 on: May 17, 2007, 12:32:04 AM »
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Kill that motherfucker!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  :flame:

Do it now!!!!!!!! :skull:  ::both::

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« Reply #2500 on: May 17, 2007, 12:36:04 AM »
Yes, TheWho must die. :skull:
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« Reply #2501 on: May 17, 2007, 06:52:49 AM »
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Deborah wrote:
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Excuse me?
Earth to The Who - you are asserting that programs can or do save children and teenagers, yet you have absolutely ZERO data to back that up.
Absolutely none.
If you have it, present it. Show your work, and cite your sources. Otherwise, shut up and stop spewing empty nonsense

I didn't write that Who. Edit your post and remove my name.


Sorry, I was following the train of thought from your previous post.....
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« Reply #2502 on: May 17, 2007, 09:38:05 AM »
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« Reply #2503 on: May 17, 2007, 09:47:13 AM »
Die, Who, die! You dirty piece of shit!  :flame:
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« Reply #2504 on: May 17, 2007, 10:10:30 AM »
Niles, much of what you said seems to be anger driven, weak on facts and heavy on the emotion.  So let me try to boil off a little of that and speak directly to one of your points, if I may.

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Parents of messed up kids are not experts on messed up kids, now are they? A "consumer experience" or review is not a replacement for professional, educated advice and evaluation.


There seems to be a bit of common ground here……..

If there were presently more updated research and studies available then we would not have to have this particular discussion, but since there isn’t we need to get comfortable with what we have.  Most businesses which don’t have studies completed (i.e. day care agencies, adoption agencies, preschools, wilderness etc.) typically use word of mouth and encourage the potential client to seek out other resources to further educate themselves.  What has been extremely successful and a good way to know about a particular program is to talk to some parents who have had kids attend.  This gives a parent  a chance to address issues that are shared by concerned parents. i.e. safety, communication, success, how the school operates, talk about the downside etc.The programs also have the parents get the child evaluated prior to accepting an application for admission (if they don’t, you should get this done on your own).  Another avenue for information is to speak with your childs therapist, if they are seeing one, or school counselor and pediatrician.
If you combine all the above a parent should have enough information to make a decision of whether placing a child outside the home is the right one for their family.
Hope this clears it up a little bit.
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