Megan,
The stats don?t support your comment that drs push for C-section due to risks. You?d be hard pressed to find a woman, at least I have been, who didn?t have a C-section these days. Most vaginal births are to women who don?t have insurance to cover C-section. The C ladies typically have a low threshold for pain and/or want to schedule their birth around their work schedule and/or pick the birth date.
The medical industry has redefined ?risk? and ?extended labor?.
I had 9+ pound babies, as did my daughter, and I?m a small woman. I labored for 12 ? 14 hours. I can?t say that it was fun, but I wouldn?t do it any other way.
Doctors don?t want to ?coach? a laboring mom, or listen to their discomfort. They have developed a nice, relatively pleasant procedure that serves ?them? (the dr) well.
Petosin (sp?), Spinal, Doc checks in every coupla hours, woops, it?s been 6 hours. Not progressing fast enough. Extended labor. Baby could be distressed. Time to call it an emergency. Break out the scalpel.
I just don?t think drs would be faced with so many lawsuits if they didn?t intervene as often. The overwhelming majority of women can birth a baby with no complications.
And the trendy ?birthing room? my daughter had was a joke. I guess some women are fooled, at least they can tell their friends they had one, and imagine that they had a 'natural' birth. It was a birthing room by name alone.
When my first grandson was born the doctor told my daughter, after a few hours of labor, that she needed to take petosin. I asked her if that was what she wanted, we had discussed this. He ignored me, leaned over her bed, looked her in the eye and asked, ?you want to get this baby out don?t you?? Torn, my daughter cried and agreed. I remained silent. It wasn?t the time to bust the guy?s balls. She needed to trust him, and he had sufficiently scared her. In his case, he?d been there all day and wanted this baby born on his watch. Had nothing to do with complications or risks. Purely ego and selfishness.
If that wasn?t bad enough, she requested Advil for a headache caused by the spinal. They gave her Demerol !!! And this was right before she needed to push. She could hardly keep her eyes open, much less push. Was angry and cried through the final moments of labor. She and the baby were groggy for hours. It was nothing short of a miracle that she didn?t end up with a C-section with that one.