On 2005-03-28 05:01:00, Dysfunction Junction wrote:
"Ahhh... The vigor of youth. I remember back when I was in college when everything was new and shiny and every class I took became like a religion.
I can remember taking my first Social Sciences classes and being absolutely convinced that Democratic Socialism was, and must be, the future. That Skinner, or Freud or Maslow (whoever I happened to be studying at the time) was really spot-on with their work.
Then something happened. I began to develop the ability to think critically. Once that happened I was able to distill my learning into valid opinions of my own that derived from source information, but did not DEPEND on it.
At some point in your collegiate career you will realize the futility of absolutism and will begin to understand things in a more well-rounded way based on more ecclectic knowledge.
Until then, you are going to exhibit truncated reasoning skills..."
Well, you guys are busy telling me to get over myself, well, get over *yourself*.
I suppose I *could* go back to college and be a professional student for life, but I'm much too busy actually living mine.
Probability and advanced math are tools for understanding the world. When we combine them with data, we get the closest thing to fact it's possible for us to have. We get it in percentages with confidence intervals, but it's a signicantly more accurate way of knowing more about the world than anyone *else* has.
I've never known *anyone* who understood the math--or more specifically, who had ever sat down and actually done the math, even if the ability to do so atrophied through disuse later on---who "didn't believe in" statistics. And yeah, I've sat down and done substantial portions of the math, even though those skills have rusted away, a lot, from disuse.
Religion is a set of emotional hypotheses about the world and someone's place in it that are *designed* to be unprovable---so that they will also be unable to be disproved. Religion is a mishmash of wishful thinking, hallucination, and financial con game. The only "understanding" possible on religion is whether or not you've had the requisite hallucination, or convinced yourself you have, to become convinced you absolutely "know" something "in your heart."
It's not, actually, lack of a social skill to not suffer fools gladly. I *could* do it, if I chose to. It's a personality trait or decision that people I consider foolish don't like. It's a decision that people who value diplomacy more than I do don't like. Maybe it would be fair to call it arrogance. I don't know. All I know is that if I sit down and let a statement as manifestly stupid as "I don't believe in statistics" go by without saying something about it, I'd feel like a schmuck.
It's one thing to let a really foolish statement go by when it doesn't hurt anybody. I do that a lot, and since "foolish" is frequently a matter of opinion, I would guess pretty much everybody lets a fair few statements they think are foolish go right by without commenting on them.
It's a whole 'nother thing when a particularly foolish statement is the kind of statement that tends to spread, and be taken up by others, and tends to be the kind of thing that hurts people.
I see "I don't believe in statistics" as that kind of foolish statement---the kind that if you let it go by without challenging it, other people are tempted to pick it up and repeat it because it's easy.
This has nothing to do with being bipolar---notice that it's been several days.
This has to do with just plain not caring if you feel offended on this subject, or if your friend feels offended, when I say "I don't believe in statistics" is a stupid statement.
It's not that I generally don't care about offending you or others. It's that I don't care about offending you or others about this specific kind of statement, because I think it's the kind of idea that does a lot of long-term harm to people and I'm just not going to let it go by without saying something about it.
Think what you want to think of me. I'm not saying, on this subject, "Oh, I'm bipolar, *excuse* me." I'm saying that everybody has ideas that mean something to them, for various reasons, this is one of mine, and frankly, this particular idea means more to me than any level of concern I might have had over whether you or anyone else thinks I'm nice or not.
Everyone has ideas that matter to them. This is one of mine. Deal with it or not, just as you please.
Timoclea