i apologize for assuming you were a man. ottawa5, doesn't sound very feminine to me.
for the record, my wife is also a canadian citizen, so please don't get the idea that i hold that against you.
Now that you have confirmed that you are a woman,
there is one thing i have to know. as i'm
sure you are aware, several posters on other topics in this site have raised the possibility
that you may be a recruiter, or that you are a former or current cedu employee. i've been reading your posts, and the information you've shared about your son, and the details about your experiences finishing the cedu program with him sound vaguely familiar to me.
i believe i have heard this story before,
14 years ago.
On December 28, 1990, i was delivered to cedu by two rather large private investigators (they told me that they were the "school escort service"). i was 14 years old. The first person i met was the director of admissions (i think that's what she called herself),a woman named PAT SAVAGE. at first she was extremely friendly, and she began to tell me about the "wonderful opportunity" that awaited me for personal growth and discovery :

: (i was a stupid 14 year old kid, i had no idea what the hell she was talking about). Pat began to tell me about how her son who had graduated from cedu in the mid 80's. apparantly Pat's son was abusive to his siblings, failing in school, getting in trouble with the law, and his behavior was tearing the family apart. Pat explained to me how cedu turned her son's life around, and brought them closer together, because she was allowed to GO THROUGH THE PROGRAM WITH HIM. Pat also mentioned that her experience with cedu INSPIRED HER TO GO BACK TO SCHOOL,CHANGE CAREERS, and that she decided to work at cedu. Pat kept using words like "Wonderful" and "Amazing", she really made it sound like life at cedu was paradise on earth (boy was that a crock of shit!).
Pat spoke with an accent that i was completely unfamiliar with, however, it was clear to me that Pat was not from California or Chicago (where i lived) or anywhere else i'd ever visited . i had never met anyone from Canada at that time, but looking back now, Pat could very well have been Canadian. Pat then handed me a stack of pages (more or less a contract saying that i would follow cedu's rules) that i was supposed to sign. i asked her if i could think about it, Pat hesitated, and said that i could think about it, but i had to come back to her office and sign the papers before the end of the move-in process. at this point Pat was still being very nice to me. Pat then turned me over to Russ Decker and 2 older students.
Russ and his 2 cedu sheep walked me around the campus, and then took me to my dorm. they then proceeded to rummage through my belongings and confiscated everything that meant anything to me. Russ then told me i would be stripped searched, and ordered me to disrobe. I refused, and told him "The only guy i'll ever take my clothes off for is my doctor." I was informed that i would not be allowed to stay if i didn't strip. i said i didn't want to stay, so Russ and his 2 sheep escorted me back to Pat's office.
the PAT SAVAGE that i met this time was a completely different person. she was hostile, arrogant, and extremely confrontational. even her face changed, like she was possessed or something. i told Pat i didn't want to stay,and she started yelling and threatening me. her face turned bright red. i was told that if i didn't stay, i would be sent to lock up until i was 18, where i would be beaten, abused, raped, and that i would never speak to my family again. Russ also added that if i go to lock up "i better get used to being fucked in the ass." Russ and Pat had a great big laugh about that one. i told them i couldn't believe that my parents would do that to me. Pat then got my mom on the phone, who told me verbatum "our decision is firm, either stay and finish Cedu's program, our go to lock up and be out of our lives forever." then she hung up. i was devestated. i couldn't believe that my mom would say that to me. I had no choice but to strip and agree to Cedu's terms.
so tell me ottawa, are you Pat Savage? i think that you are. there are way too many similarities between what i read in your posts, and the story Pat told me. i cannot simply dismiss this as pure coincidence. if you are Pat Savage, then you are a LYING, TWO-FACED, COLD-HEARTED BITCH! You deserve every bit of the hostility that posters on this site have shown you. if i am mistaken, then please forgive me.
As for the username SON OF SERBIA, i am 100% Serbian, so in a sense, i am a son of Serbia. to my knowledge, i am the only Serb who ever attended cedu. i've always been proud of who and what i am, and that fact was common knowlege to everyone who was at cedu with me. Cedu staff would use my ethnic pride against me, and i was blown away in quite a few raps because of that pride. One staff member, Patrick Stambusky, even compared my ethnic pride to that of Adolf Hitler and he labeled me an anti-semite (this could not be any further from the truth, being that nazis and their allies massacred over 1 million of my people as well). i think this was a ploy to get the jewish students to side with him while he was screaming at me. it worked. I'm sure that anyone who sat in these raps with me remebers them. i chose the name SON OF SERBIA in order to give posters who were at cedu with me an important clue as to my identity.