Jim,
I'm not saying that Elan may be less abusive compared to the old days but the only person telling lies about your family is some guy named Nazi who is no longer here. Jordan, Marina, Art, Syn, myself and everyone else have not said abusive or untrue things about Clare. We should not be targets for your hostility. Telling others to grow up and face the music doesn't work. Your major contact with Elan since you left, I'm sure, has been Clare who, from a director's perspective, would only give a certain view of the place. Like every Elan staff member, she has been completely unapologetic about the errors of the "new Elan" or any other Elan for that matter.
You've defended your family and that's fine. Beyond that, don't pick on others.