Chr*s Kr*m*r

[Jen]

I really find it hard that anyone here is bashing Christy.  She has always been an outspoken activist against Newton.  She had the courage to leave and then went to the media with full balls to the wall speaking out.  She has taken every opportunity since then to get in his face and under his skin.  
There have been others that spoke out but no one that I have seen has been as dedicated as Christy.  She has more compassion and care for those who have been abused by that man then so many of us.  So shut the hell up until you are ready to step up and sacrifice life as you know it, be there for an x-kid and doing everything in your power to expose that sleeze bag for exactly what he is.

Jenny

[Anonymous]

I agree 100% that Christy is a very caring and dedicated ex Kid.  She has done more to get Newton and Ruth than you [the basher] would ever have the courage to do.  I cringe just thinking of looking at Miller, no less going to the trial and facing him day after day.  Besides, where were you when Lulu needed support?  I hate reading these bashings.  Even the ones about Millers henchmen.  We were all victims, or have you got a monopoly on being abused at Kids.  Wake up and grow up....this web site could use a little more people like Christy than you.  I come here to hear about the trouble the Newtons are in.  Not hear babyish whining about oldcomers.  Who of us is perfect?

[Anonymous]

Christy are you posting all the "we love christy" posts? Tell the truth now.

[Christy]

I will take that as a friendly joke - and it made me smile!  Thanks for the support guys.  I guess you can't be liked by everyone.  And for the record - my life is like most I know - busy, up & down, rewarding and yes, sometimes not so much "empty", but lonely!  I am not ashamed to admit that!  Single in your 30's brings a range of emotions.  I just think its a shame YOU (anon) find joy in announcing you"suspicion" (like a good little upper phaser)  of my possible greif!  Odd.

[Christy]

PS -
AND... If it wasn't a friendly joke - at this point - all I can say to ANON is BITE ME :razz: and all your interest in MY "emptiness", ironically implies you have a bit of your own. Whatever. If I am helping you feel superior - enjoy!

[Anonymous]

I certainly don`t want to bash you, but i would like to know why you are still single. I thought you were serious with some exkids kids, i always liked you when I was in group. What happened to those potential mates? I probably shouldn`t ask its more a question of how you and the men from kids you got to know are doing, is that to nosey?

[Christy]

Why am I still single?  Dunno.  Too picky, wrong choices, hard to meet men in thirties when your girlfriends are all married & home with their kids... who knows.  I do know I am real serious about waiting till I am sure.  I am dating, but nothing has really stuck in a while.  

Dating ex-kids-kids.  Now there's a topic for therapy!  With Joel. I think it was so deeply tied into "losing him" b/c of "them" a decade before - and it sent me down a road I maybe needed to go to tie up some unfinished stuff.  It certainly is a choice I regret.  With Craig, that was pure optomism - probably for both of us - at the time, thinking it all seemed to make sense & seeing what we wanted to see in each other.  We really are not compatible.  I am certainly quite OVER the dating ex-kid-kids.  More deeply, I think those choices when I was younger had a lot to do with the closeness I felt to those I went thru that with - and how hard its been since to feel 100% "gotten" by men I've men.  Its all tied up in the insanity of the long lasting effects of good ole KIDS, I can assure you that.
Thanks for asking & the kind words.
PS - If you saw where I live now - in nowheresville PA (a career move) - you would wonder much less how I could have trouble meeting men!!!!  :wink:

[Anonymous]

I am so glad that you are doing well.  I always liked you, and you did help me alot.  Sorry things didn't turn our with ex kids, but maybe that was for the best.  too much history!  I wish you all the best, and keep posting.  I like to know how you are.  where in Pa are you...if you can tell me.  If you can't, I will ask you in person some day.

[tenacious1]

i'll tell ya, in such a horrible environment, the shit chris pulled sometimes was hysterical! i even remember joel cracking a few smiles at his rebellious antics(of course he wasn't accused of being full of shit or dishonest!). and you always knew on the days chris came in repenting for his ill-gotten behavior, that the next day he'd be sitting there with his head down sleeping in group all over again! ::rocker::


ROCK ON CHRIS!!!