Ginger please erase the above post. I hit send before I finished.
Ginger I respect you for who you are and for what you stand for. I always will. Why? Because you DO NOT try to tell other people what to think and beleive, but instead challenge people to step back evaluate and then address or readdress the issue at hand.
I know you don't agree with me on everything, and that is ok. I would not expect for you to, nor would I expect for anyone to. You, like me, don't have that overwhelming need to control others. We just have our experiences to share. We can tell others what has happened to us.
You are so right when you said that I have "lived in world untouched by toughlove" until only recently. But understand Ginger, my experience has been totally different than yours. Not only were my boys in a "program" that I knew very little about, but additionally they were exploited by a separate group of individuals (all who are in the program business) who, played on my worse fears in order to further their own agenda, for monitary gain and/or revenge.
What I don't understand, and what they won't answer for me is: Why does my exposing, Sue, Bozak, Amber Lee, etc. hurt their case against WWASP? Why is my telling what happen to me such a threat to the others?