Anon wrote:
CAREY - YOU HAVE LOST YOUR CREDIBILITY WITH MANY OF US.
Who are the "many" of us? Who anon, are you, and the "many" you speak for? Provide names? Step out from under the paper bag and give some credibility to yourself and comments. What evidence do you possess that might prove that Carey is "jealous" or "supportive of abuse"? It sounds like the imaginings of a teen who has it out for Carey because she questioned his/her hero's involvement in the movie, and therefore wants to have her banned from the In group.
And...anon, if you would stop blathering about your imaginings (Carey being jealous and supportive of abuse) long enough to actually read her story, you'd know that her husband didn't have custody. You are wasting space on this message board constantly bemoaning your imaginings. Get over it. We heard your imaginings the first time.
There are known and unknown factions battling on this message board. There's Carey, Karen, Sue?, and who knows who else. This isn't the appropriate place for that, imho. Most of the readers here don't know the history between you people, or who's who, or what's what. It's not very considerate to expect people to piece together a story with little snipet of information here and there. A little of from many threads.
For me to take anything seriously, there must be an accusation followed by some form of proof to support it. When proof isn't provided, I write it off as someone venting, using the time and attention of others to listen to their personal issues or lame attempts to discredit someone.
The only people in this discussion that I respect and take seriously are Carey and Karen who don't hide behind a paper bag, who allow other's to question their thinking and motives. The rest of you anon posters don't carry much weight with me. (Perhaps I should exaggerate here and say, don't carry much weight with "the rest of us"- power in numbers.)
I think the thing we should all notice and be aware of is the insidious paranoia that involvement with these types of facilities can create. People don't know who to trust. When I first became involved and started speaking out about a non-WWASP program, I was hesitant to respond to messages I received privately for fear it was a staff member attempting to pull something out of me that they could use against me. I had only shared my experience, yet was threatened- they would take legal action if I didn't cease and desist speaking negatively about the facility.
I appreciate all action taken against any program, by any person, for any reason.
Deborah