"Taking someone, depriving them of their freedom and dangling basic Human Rights in front of them like a carrot until they perform like circus monkies is Monstrous." Claydog
Well put, Clay. I envy and covet the power of your brain. Your quote here is to the point like a blunt force trauma. Hello? Straight sucked! But what I've come to understand is that Straight HAS evolved over the years, not entirely, but largely. Even in the years I was in 1988-1990, things changed dramatically. The kinder gentler Straight that is SAFE is the result of the original Straight becoming a "lawsuit hazard" in the eighties and early nineties. The violent factors have probably been curbed for a more reasonable approach, but I don't think it matters, if it is following the basic Straight modality, it is still inevitably a failure.
Most kids who are put into these programs for intervention are NOT addicts, they are just inducted into a group of people who learned to chant that they are! They don't really belong in 12 step groups where the people hit serious lows. Not that AA or NA will run anybody away except Dave Chapelle in Half Baked, but it does matter if you are not an alcoholic or addict who spends the majority of his or her time with real recovering alcoholics and addicts. I'm not saying it's a bad thing to go to AA or NA if that's what you like, but you don't necessarily want to look for approval and company from these types. Some of them are very immoral sober people, for one. I have met some sorry ass sober people. If you are not an alcoholic or addict, you need (may want to think about) to hang out with people who have a life, that haven't hit bottom, that haven't lost it all and are trying to pick up the pieces of their life after the fact.
Look, I've spent my time in recovery circles, and it was fine. Really. But then a guy I knew from Straight told me to watch them and not to blindly trust them. I decided to observe in the meetings more, and you know what. They didn't have all that much that I really wanted. Some are okay, so I am not trying to say all AA's suck or something dumb like that. All I am saying is that you may want to evaluate your situation. Would you be in these scenes in the first place if you weren't put in treatment at a young age? Do you have trouble getting along with people outside these programs?
You may be able to do better than that is all I'm saying. If I sound overly critical of AA's, I'm not trying to, I still know some and consider them friends, but I do not attend AA today, and NOW I am sober. I wasn't able to stay sober when I went to meetings alot. Ironic. Anyway, there is life after treatment and AA/NA and I am living proof. I am not going to call myself an "alcoholic" or a "recovering alcoholic" BECAUSE THOSE WORDS DO NOT DESCRIBE ME, DEFINE ME, OR APPLY TO ME IN ANY WAY AT ALL! I don't drink because I don't want to drink and AA didn't do it for me, neither Straight Inc.-I just happen to know someone High Up that knows how to honk my horn to the tune of Dixie! Yee-haw!
Good luck, Jennifer Pepper Aguilera, in finding your new unscrewed up friends outside of the 12 step taverns and whorehouses and definitely way outside the OM's. Sincerely, Scott
Disclaimer: These are my thoughts. Do what you feel is right for you if you didn't already know that.