OK, I stayed out of here all day because I didn't want to squabble over this subject anymore, but I have to say this last thing, though it has been said already. It is never OK, never, never, never OK for a legal adult to have a sexual relationship with a legal minor. Consentual, nonconsentual, rape or not. It is flat out wrong. Legally wrong, morally wrong, there is no excuse. I never said anything about CCM until she started attacking abuse victims personally, and I have never called her a foul name either unless you count shrew. I just don't know how as a female, she can defend staff having sex with a resident in a program. The fact she brags about having manipulated men into this situation in order to get them fired makes her a pour excuse for a human being. Those men deserved to lose their jobs because they were dumb enough to allow themselves to be manipulated into a bad thing, but they are still ultimately responsible. CCM, honey, any parent who read that little piece of testimony alone and still places their child in the program you were in should have their head examined, and possibly be jailed for endangerment. That is proof, that the staff members in the facility you were in were not adult enough to know the moral boundaries that society expects of it's average citizen. Teens are basicly sent to programs because the parents feel they are lacking in moral boundaries, why would you read that then intrust your child to people who according to someone who supports the program, have none. It is laughable. You just keep being the posterchild for your program, cause it is counterproductive.