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« Reply #45 on: July 31, 2007, 02:09:50 AM »
Thanks Jersey gurl.  This has all been kind of polite compared to some of the noise in the past.  I can offer proof that Izzy has contempt for me, she's posted it...oh, wait, she took that shit down.  Nevermind.
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« Reply #46 on: July 31, 2007, 02:11:26 AM »
what was this noise you speak of?
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« Reply #47 on: July 31, 2007, 02:18:04 AM »
One upset little peckerwood wrote that my step daughter would probably rather be at PV than living with a bastard like me, to paraphrase.
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« Reply #48 on: July 31, 2007, 02:19:51 AM »
fuck whoever said that... theyre just jealous bc they know your a great guy...and they are apparently not... fuckin people these days... make me sick
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« Reply #49 on: July 31, 2007, 07:20:21 AM »
I apologize Joyce and to whomever else here I offended with that comment about being part of a cult.  Not everyone here shares the same mentality, but the hostility to certain points of view from some quarters is certainly cult-like.

Let's get this straight, Kat, myself, Charlie, Andy, and Marvin are very anti-program.  We are zero-tolerance when it comes to programs.  However, we have board members who are not, who have typically had experiences in "good" programs, and terrible programs.  And as far as those compromises that were listed, all of those folks have very little control over except to quit their job or to quit their board position in protest (when they can do far more good by changing policy from the inside).

My point was to ask where does this end?  To the point that Zen-agent is being called as bad as Izzy?  Have we lost our minds here?

I want to shut down this industry as bad as anyone and I will not compromise my beliefs, but that doesn't mean not associating with others who have a less orthodox viewpoint.  So I am insulted for Kat, when people start throwing around things like is she willing to support MMS.  And we do not have a list of middle of the road programs, because we don't believe in programs.  Those who hold a differing opinion we try to convince of why they're opinion is flawed.

Zen, would you have not accepted help from ASTART if you knew that their chairman in his role with a separate entity received sponsorship dollars from a well-known RTC (one of those programs that some, but not most, members of ASTART would probably consider acceptable because of their history).  Does their involvement in ASTART render their whole operation compromised?

Again, I apologize for shooting from the hip so easily, and hurting anyone if I have.
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« Reply #50 on: July 31, 2007, 07:20:46 AM »
I apologize to Joyce and to whomever else here I offended with that comment about being part of a cult.  

Let's get this straight, Kat, myself, Charlie, Andy, and Marvin are very anti-program.  We are zero-tolerance when it comes to programs.  However, we have board members who are not, who have typically had experiences in "good" programs, and terrible programs.  And as far as those compromises that were listed, all of those folks have very little control over except to quit their job or to quit their board position in protest (when they can do far more good by changing policy from the inside).

My point was to ask where does this end?  To the point that Zen-agent is being called as bad as Izzy?  Have we lost our minds here?

I want to shut down this industry as bad as anyone and I will not compromise my beliefs, but that doesn't mean not associating with others who have a less orthodox viewpoint.  So I am insulted for Kat, when people start throwing around things like is she willing to support MMS.  And we do not have a list of middle of the road programs, because we don't believe in programs.  Those who hold a differing opinion we try to convince of why they're opinion is flawed.

Zen, would you have not accepted help from ASTART if you knew that their chairman in his role with a separate entity received sponsorship dollars from a well-known RTC (one of those programs that some, but not most, members of ASTART would probably consider acceptable because of their history).  Does their involvement in ASTART render their whole operation compromised?

Again, I apologize for shooting from the hip so easily, and hurting anyone if I have.
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« Reply #51 on: July 31, 2007, 08:24:55 AM »
Quote from: ""blombro""
I apologize Joyce and to whomever else here I offended with that comment about being part of a cult.  Not everyone here shares the same mentality, but the hostility to certain points of view from some quarters is certainly cult-like.

Let's get this straight, Kat, myself, Charlie, Andy, and Marvin are very anti-program.  We are zero-tolerance when it comes to programs.  However, we have board members who are not, who have typically had experiences in "good" programs, and terrible programs.  And as far as those compromises that were listed, all of those folks have very little control over except to quit their job or to quit their board position in protest (when they can do far more good by changing policy from the inside).

My point was to ask where does this end?  To the point that Zen-agent is being called as bad as Izzy?  Have we lost our minds here?

I want to shut down this industry as bad as anyone and I will not compromise my beliefs, but that doesn't mean not associating with others who have a less orthodox viewpoint.  So I am insulted for Kat, when people start throwing around things like is she willing to support MMS.  And we do not have a list of middle of the road programs, because we don't believe in programs.  Those who hold a differing opinion we try to convince of why they're opinion is flawed.

Zen, would you have not accepted help from ASTART if you knew that their chairman in his role with a separate entity received sponsorship dollars from a well-known RTC (one of those programs that some, but not most, members of ASTART would probably consider acceptable because of their history).  Does their involvement in ASTART render their whole operation compromised?

Again, I apologize for shooting from the hip so easily, and hurting anyone if I have.


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« Reply #52 on: July 31, 2007, 08:28:30 AM »
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Ladies and gentlemen, Fornits is a cult, and we don't do cults. A cult, even in the name of doing good work, is still a cult. So you say that our compromises make us as bad as the programs, I say your cult-like exclusionary behavior makes you as bad as the programs.


For those of us who did survive real cults, this statement is particularly hateful.
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« Reply #53 on: July 31, 2007, 09:06:18 AM »
Quote from: ""blombro""
I apologize to Joyce and to whomever else here I offended with that comment about being part of a cult.  

Let's get this straight, Kat, myself, Charlie, Andy, and Marvin are very anti-program.  We are zero-tolerance when it comes to programs.  However, we have board members who are not, who have typically had experiences in "good" programs, and terrible programs.  And as far as those compromises that were listed, all of those folks have very little control over except to quit their job or to quit their board position in protest (when they can do far more good by changing policy from the inside).

My point was to ask where does this end?  To the point that Zen-agent is being called as bad as Izzy?  Have we lost our minds here?

I want to shut down this industry as bad as anyone and I will not compromise my beliefs, but that doesn't mean not associating with others who have a less orthodox viewpoint.  So I am insulted for Kat, when people start throwing around things like is she willing to support MMS.  And we do not have a list of middle of the road programs, because we don't believe in programs.  Those who hold a differing opinion we try to convince of why they're opinion is flawed.

Zen, would you have not accepted help from ASTART if you knew that their chairman in his role with a separate entity received sponsorship dollars from a well-known RTC (one of those programs that some, but not most, members of ASTART would probably consider acceptable because of their history).  Does their involvement in ASTART render their whole operation compromised?

Again, I apologize for shooting from the hip so easily, and hurting anyone if I have.


We were aware of wolves in sheep's clothing, and we would have accepted help from questionable sources - we wouldn't send other people needing help to them, though.

An A START member and I were talking about ethics yesterday, mainly about Michael Moore's lack of ethics.  Brian, you've engaged in finger-pointing, "what about them" dodging and ducking.  If you really have all these  important connections, CAFETY needs to set an example.  Don't worry about Jordan, clean your own house first.

I still support A START until I find out more, but I think they should sever ties to CAFETY.
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« Reply #54 on: July 31, 2007, 09:59:24 AM »
Brain, when have you ever seen FORNITS supporting Jordan Riak, NO-SPANK?  You have seen Fornits posters rally around; and supporting CAFETY from day one!

This is not a complicated issue, Brian Blombro.
Fornits posters DO NOT SUPPORT PROGRAMS, PERIOD!
You well know that; and anyone who reads, or posts on Fornits knows that.

And it is rather clear that the majority of Fornits posters do not support Isabelle Zehner / CAICA for one simple reason: Zehnder has always supported Sue Scheff /PURE who refers children to unregulated programs.  Now, it has been proven by Zehnder's own words that she refers childrenn to unregulated programs and transport companies.

CAFETY does not link to, or support Zehnder/CAICA.
CAFETY does not link to, or support Scheff/PURE.

CAFETY link to CAICA is through NYRA.

Brian, according to your own posting--the majority of CAFETY's Board Members appear to adhere to a policy of "zero tolerance."
That is how it should be for an ADVOCACY website for children in this industry, IMO---ZERO TOLERANCE.
There is no place for "lesser abusive programs" in an Advocacy website.

CAFETY needs to take an honest  ZERO TOLERANCE stand; and clean up that BOARD.

And yes, your apology was correct:  You were cruel; You were wrong; and You were an ass.
You need to think before you click that SEND BUTTON.
If you were taking it upon yourself to be speaking for me, as a member of this CAFETY BOARD over there, I'd ask you to kindly STFU.
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« Reply #55 on: July 31, 2007, 10:06:45 AM »
This all ties into the fact that Brian has yet to stop trying to shift the focus away from CAFETY. Rather than coming up with a comprehensive plan to free CAFETY of its dangerous middle ground accommodations he instead tries to confront others.

The problem that exists is CAFETY's relationship with the NYRA.

Solve that first then worry about everything else later. If ASTART needs to clean out their house then that matter is something entirely different.

Likewise so is the link on nospank.

Likewise so is the toothfairy leaving a 500 won coin under my pillow.

It goes on and on.. and Brian still has yet to take a firm stand within his own organization. He would rather call us cultist, which he did apologize for, and point fingers everywhere else in hopes of confusing the issue.

AGAIN brian.. The problem is CAFETY's relationship with the NYRA. I don't really give a shit who you have on your board of directors. If you all have some house cleaning to do to get rid of the middle ground taint then stop whining on fornits and get of your ass and go do it.

But do it after you solve the issue with the NYRA. As far as I am concerned I really don't give to pound of dried monkey shit what CAFETY does. It's pretty clear to me that my wise decisions made for this decade just doubled when I made sure I never official joined CAFETY.

In the bigger picture people we are seeing whats happens when advocates turn into advocoidiots.

They started with the best of intentions and now...........
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« Reply #56 on: July 31, 2007, 10:39:50 AM »
Cults:

Are abusive.
Practice sleep deprivation.
Limit food intake.
Prevent communication with anyone not in cult.
Use coercion tactics that may include:
 - phsyical intimidation
 - sexual harassment or assault
 - and myriad psychological/emotional attacks
Prevent access to medical treatment and education.
Cut off financial support so as to create dependance.
Restrict or prohibit access to reading materials.
etc.
etc.
etc.

Fornits is not a cult.
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« Reply #58 on: July 31, 2007, 12:22:20 PM »
I agree that CAFETY should not link to NYRA, who supports CAICA and PURE.  And NYRA needs to get their facts straight.  And  yes folks, I was the one who said they were all linked, and no one believed me!  Got some of you pissed off at me, and now look.

You'd be surprised what you find if you just spend a little time digging up dirt.  And I, for one, am not done digging.  I have a personal interest in bringing everyone out of the closet.  So watch out.

SHAME on CAFETY!  and NYRA!
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« Reply #59 on: July 31, 2007, 12:26:14 PM »
Run mofos the anons are after you!!!!
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