No, no, you're not stupid. Just something you wouldn't know about unless you stumbled across it or somebody told you. For a good long while, I've used the language censor built into this forum software to switch the phrase "you need to" for "I want you to". It was very amusing to some but really pissed other people off. My jackass friend who bitched about it just up the page was one of those crying the loudest for me to get rid of the damned thing.