You also can send her back anytime you like
Are you freaking kidding me??
I regret our decision. I hate what we did to her. With the perspective of hindsight, I would never send her away again.
In addition, she's now a legal adult. She is sailing her own ship. And she's doing a find job I might add.
That’s 2 years she lived with you post program in that position with the corresponding Stockholm/other issues/ “mindset” & it doesn’t go away just because you’re over 18. I’m now over 18 but I still have a "mindset" with my parents. You can’t “think” one way for a good portion of your formative years and have “thinking” and communication styles erased by a birthday.
As you can see by how she’s only telling you these things NOW 2 years later in tears...SOMETHING was affecting her communication with you. And that SOMETHING though receding, is still extant, and a lot deeper than u consider
As for her program not being systematically abusive you only need to read a little in to what you know , even of the little you’ve said here, to know better.
First of all, if the program was so systematically unethical in their dealings with you wouldnt they be systematically unethical to your daughter over whom they have total control? These things follow a pattern
Secondly, was she kidnapped? That’s abuse. Was she than held involuntarily? That’s a CRIME referred to as involuntary confinement if the human in question is any other than a “troubled youth” whom can passed about like a football. So prima ficie she has suffered systematic abuse
Imprisonment without rights protecting the imprisoned is systematic abuse. Hardened adult criminals have belts taken from them automatically as prison is accepted as so horrible it will drive a sane man to suicide. Its even worse when you are not protected by a highly specified set of rights which prevent you from disappearing into an abyss of absolute power. Its even worse when this violation is perpetrated not just by a acceptably dangerous govt because of political reasons, but by ones’ own parents in conjunction with a supposedly ethical govt because one is so bad,/subhuman/insane that one is unworthy of a natural life or human rights.
Here is Dr describing the pshological implications of not having these inborn human rights violated
Further, Im sure communication was limited, phones monitored, negative assessment of program punished, That is systematic abuse
Further, those confessions she was forced to make are systematic abuse. Would you like to be forced to admit all you intimate “sins”( yes in the context of program they are sins/examples of insanity) to your daughter? Every drug you’ve taken, every petty misdeed, or simple quirk..and each sexual act. Forcing “enemies” to make public confessions activity is the MO of totalitarian thought reform facilities.
The purpose of those confessions is to break down your child’s identity and rebuild a self concept of deviant. Forcing her to admit her repugnantcies to you was so that in her mind her primary relationship knew her deviance.In confessing she lowers herself,accepts your authority to judg,e recoil, forgive at your leisure. You’re the master. Newly humbled, newly repugnant, newly penitent in a way only one can be made by ones own mother, she becomes more confused about reality, more certain that she is terrible, and more accepting that she is not entitled to respect, decency, etc like non deviants.
Forcing anyone to make public declarations of sex activity- outside of a crime report basis is sexual abuse. And forcing a girl to make this to her mother & father is INCESTUAL sexual abuse You were essentially manipulated into sexually abusing your own daughter in the same way that if she was forced to pull down her pants and point to her bad vagina you would be sexually abusing her
The complicated effects on the brain of a young woman whom endures this are unknown, as such information could only be gleaned by conducting experiments on unwilling children and real doctors in real intuitions will not do that
How long was she there?. Depending on how long I think its impossible she doesn’t have some heavy duty issues –brainwashing other issues going on. The pretend drs of program promote the idea that one has “behavioral disorders”-what is important is the behavior, in reality what is important is the psyche spirit of the individual, and even if a young person is behaving the important part of them can still be very very damaged in complicated and in saturated ways. I’m not saying any of this to hurt you the important thing is you pulled her…but if you really think about it….
