I Have A Troubled Son. What should I do?

[Ganja]

What helped another mother on this site? Her son used to hang around with the same crowd. Eventually, one of his friends got in big trouble. He then realized he didn't want to go that route. Maybe you could engineer something like that. Hire a PI, take photos, deliver package to popo.

If you're suggesting what I think you are, that's a pretty fucked up suggestion you just made there, psy.

Many suggestions people throw out are equally fucked up. That's what  is great about this particular type of troll. It brings out the fucked up advice and alternatives people are offering parents behind the scenes. Yikes!

Good point, I wouldn't argue that.

[Ganja]

This is what i would do if i were the kid's father: i would let him punch me until he gave me a bloody nose and/or black eye. If he didn't succeed. I might do it myself. The next morning. When he sees the black eye. what do you think he might feel? Might he feel guilty enough to want to get some anger management / therapy?

Damn! Yet another elaborately concocted ruse in attempt to prove some point...  :rofl:

 :rofl:    :rofl:

 ::bwahaha::  :rofl:  ::bwahaha2::  ::deal::  ::noway::  ::bandit::  ::bwahaha::

[Ganja]

Look. I didn't drink until i became 18, i didn't try pot until i was 18. One was legal, and one was practically legal, where i lived at the time. That is not the case here.

Fuck that shit; not me. :rofl:

I started partying early. I was a child of the late 70's...

I have never tried alcohol or pot. I didn't know I was talking to a bunch of druggies!

 :rofl:  8-)    ::bwahaha::  :smokin:

[psy]

.. it got him to think about it a bit more than if he was tending to his bloody nose.

I have to agree with your opinion now. Him losing the fights allowed him to think of himself as the "victim." Now he's the bad guy. From now on I'll just grab him and talk to him until he calms down, if this happens again. I suppose my first reaction was wrong. Who woulda thunk good advice come from the internet? Thanks.

PS, forgive my slow responses. I live in the sticks and only have dial-up at home. You realize how slow this site is if you have dial-up.

Because he is a victim you asshole.

And he's not doing it anymore.  He realizes his first reaction was wrong.  Ok.  So calm down.

[Anonymous]

So it does work...

[Dad Trying]

His interests are guitar and his loser friends.

As well as masturbating and watching his parents have sex through the hole he drilled in ceiling. He's good with the electronical stuff. Being a young lad, watching your parent fornicate, is there anything better?

Well then, he's been disappointed lately. His antics have put a lot of stress on me and mom. lol

PS, it's not fornication when you're married.

[Ganja]

Milk has suggested the same thing before. I agree. It is fucked up... but how open do you think his father is to taking your suggestions, with a name like that. Hmm? If this father is upset about his kid smoking Ganja, Ganja.

He probably didn't really think twice about it until you so thoughtfully pointed it out.  :roll:

[Anonymous]

NO FURRIES

[Anonymous]

But he's so cute. And look, he has no pants on.  ops:

[Ganja]

If they're just re-selling a quarter to a friend, i don't think his father should do what I suggested... but if they're running 8balls of coke along with the pounds of pot... now that is dangerous.

That's not what you said at first...

[Anonymous]

Emo fags.

repoted to prevent editing2/11/06

[Dad Trying]

Milk has suggested the same thing before. I agree. It is fucked up... but how open do you think his father is to taking your suggestions, with a name like that. Hmm? If this father is upset about his kid smoking Ganja, Ganja.

He probably didn't really think twice about it until you so thoughtfully pointed it out.  :roll:

Oh i noticed it, Bob Marley.

[Anonymous]

If they're just re-selling a quarter to a friend, i don't think his father should do what I suggested... but if they're running 8balls of coke along with the pounds of pot... now that is dangerous.

That's not what you said at first...

Its funny when other people who never did anything that they are advising are talking about stuff you did and they are wrong. Comical really -- Viva Mexica aribe La Raza!  

[Ganja]

I wouldn't do it then.  5 to 10 years is too much.  If you can get a cop friend to take the stuff away and give the kid a warning...  that might be more suitable.  Kids make mistakes.  You wouldn't want your kid in jail for 10 years would you?

Finally you're talking sense, psy.

[Ganja]

There is a private company that will arrest your teen for drug posession and sale and send him away for as long as you want. This is called an escort company and they charge about fifteen hundred dollars. Do you have fifteen hundred dollars? If you do, your problem could be gone within a couple days. Poof, no trace of him for years, if you like. Doesn't that sound tempting? Sure, he will be wharehoused, and strangers making minimum wage will be dealing with him, but hey, at least you don't!
So do what you know deep down you know you are going to do anyways. Pick up the phone and call an escort company, and have your son dragged away in chains to be punished for his terrible action of meddling in illegal substances. Then get him on a bunch of prescriptiong drugs for depression and anxiety... lock him up for drugs and then pump him full of some other ones that cost a hundred times more. Come on man, you know you want to do it. Go ahead. Pick up the phone. And please, use your cell phone video camera to capture the moment your son is taken from your home and post it on youtube. We could use the entertainment!

I love these ironic posts; just saying.. kudos, anon.