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« Reply #120 on: January 30, 2007, 09:32:37 PM »
But not all programs are Straight, Psy.  And many people come out and move on with their lives a lot better than Anne has.  This forum is a tiny, tiny minority.

TSW- It's interesting to me how the things that seem to bother you so much about others are exactly the things YOU do.  You are always trying to identify my issues.  You always want to turn any discussion around to be about how screwed up you think I am.  How about all the people who impersonate ME or all ME all sorts of names? But God forbid I reply in kind.  Really gets to you, doesn't it?  

Anne- I have no influence on whether anyone sends their kid to a program. What part of "I don't advocate programs" don't you get? I want there to be an alternative!
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« Reply #121 on: January 30, 2007, 09:33:58 PM »
Quote from: ""TS Waygookin""
The best part about all of this is all you have to do is keep posting and she can't resist not responding.

LEFT KAREN LEFT!!

NO RIGHT RIGHT!!!

Any other person fully in their head would have logged off a long time ago and gone to start learning how to knit.

BUT not KAREN!

Woooooooooooooooooooo!

LEFT! LEFT!

 :rofl:  :rofl:
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« Reply #122 on: January 30, 2007, 09:35:24 PM »
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I want there to be an alternative!

Hmm.. what sort of alternative?
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« Reply #123 on: January 30, 2007, 09:36:52 PM »
I would send my teen to Karen for mentoring if that were an option.
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« Reply #124 on: January 30, 2007, 09:37:10 PM »
An alternative for kids who can't remain in the home and community, like mine.  Take the things that DID work about the program he attended-  one of which was a therapist he respected.  I don't know- this is what I am trying to figure out.  Where to turn when you are really at the end of the line.
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« Reply #125 on: January 30, 2007, 09:38:29 PM »
Well, my kids are doing pretty well, despite being raised by their parents.  I guess somewhere we accidentally did something right in between abusing them.
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« Reply #126 on: January 30, 2007, 09:46:19 PM »
I dont think Karen wants to have all her issues and shit splayed out for everyone in the group to hear and us throw back at her in order to hurt her. She chooses not to admit personal stuff and luckily she isnt coerced over long periods of time in doing something like this against her will. karen imagine if TSW had  complete control over you, could lock you in isolation, force you to admit your shit in front of a crowd of epople.. maybe then you get an idea of what goes for treatment these days.
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« Reply #127 on: January 30, 2007, 09:49:51 PM »
I can not imagine anything worse.  I agree that the scenario you describe is abusive.  However, this is not the way my son's wilderness program worked and even the TBS did not use TSW tactics or the kind of force or coercion you describe.  I am open to learning more about it if it does- and I can see how to some people (teens) it can feel like that. For my son it didn't impact him that much.
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« Reply #128 on: January 30, 2007, 09:54:33 PM »
SPAM
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« Reply #129 on: January 30, 2007, 09:56:41 PM »
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I would send my teen to Karen for mentoring if that were an option.

 :rofl:
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« Reply #130 on: January 30, 2007, 09:56:45 PM »
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Well, my kids are doing pretty well, despite being raised by their parents.  I guess somewhere we accidentally did something right in between abusing them.


Yes, we all know how well adjusted and smart your kids are.  We all know that you're not really either pro-program or anti-program. We all know  that you have been on ST and Fornits with many different identities, only some of which you've owned up to. We all know that you've insulted people just as badly (if not worse) as you accuse others of doing to you. We all know that you're just trying to "help parents with their troubled teens".

We know.  We know.  You keep saying the same things over and over again.  And the same people keep arguing with you.

Don't you get tired of this?  Why don't you just go away?  (And I don't mean that in an insulting way.)
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« Reply #131 on: January 30, 2007, 09:58:54 PM »
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Reality Check please!


It bounced.
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« Reply #132 on: January 30, 2007, 09:59:38 PM »
Well carlbrook doesnt have its own forum here, and the only reason the thread stayed alive was because the tit for tat troll game with you.  our points are basically the same. when you talk about programs or use the word program and say it was good for your son i think, this lady must not know what most othe rprograms are like. the majority of kids dont go to ivy league schools they go to aspen, or wwasps, or cedu, so i hope you realize your son was very lucky and that is usually not the case for the programs discussed on this forum. just like you want us to aknowledge that some kids can go through the experienec without abuse, you must aknowledge that many kids do get abused. we are very similar in that aspect of our arguments.

if 5 mcdonalds across the counotry out of tens of thousands had sick customers coming out everyday, and even deaths.. they would lose business and be shut down so fast due to the media attention. how about 20 mcdonalds.. what would happen to their stock price? welll 20 out of 10000 mcdonalds is a very small minority. but i bet youd think twice about pulling into mcdonalds on your way home. so why isnt that true with these unregulated TBS? would you go online and tell everyone you just ate at a mcdonalds and didnt get sick, or would you just stand back, horrified and hope nobody goes to mcdonalds, no matter how small the chance that they might end up sick. one aspect of this industry is how silent and secret eferything is kept. there are cover ups in the abuse and killings and that shows something is definitely not right with the private teen business in america.

sorry for my crappy typing i just got a laptop and im getting used to the small keyboard!
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« Reply #133 on: January 30, 2007, 10:00:23 PM »
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An alternative for kids who can't remain in the home and community, like mine.

I'm curious as to why your kids couldn't remain in your home, or why they didn't want to, etc.
What was the reason?
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« Reply #134 on: January 30, 2007, 10:02:03 PM »
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I dont think Karen wants to have all her issues and shit splayed out for everyone in the group to hear and us throw back at her in order to hurt her. She chooses not to admit personal stuff and luckily she isnt coerced over long periods of time in doing something like this against her will. karen imagine if TSW had  complete control over you, could lock you in isolation, force you to admit your shit in front of a crowd of epople.. maybe then you get an idea of what goes for treatment these days.

OMG!
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