I had ECT in 2001.
It was amazing, how well it worked, zero side effects and I made
it to breakfast each morning of the treatment.
I was on many meds prior to ECT, now I am on a couple, at very
low doses.
I have not had the need for any more treatments since the first four.
Now, going on six years depression free, I am back to work !!!
I was brought into the ECT room about 6:30am, and breakfast was at 7am. I never missed a breakfast.
Curiously, I was wondering where they zapped me. I couldn't feel the spots on my temples. Then I realized all the negative comments are just anti-hype.
I think there are about 500,000 treatments done in the US every year. They are expensive, about $1,300 each. If ECT didn't work they wouldn't use it.
Notice that there has never been a wrongful death, nor malpractice ECT lawsuit ... because it works.
Yes, some have memory loss. Depression also causes memory loss. So, for me it was worth the risk. I had no memory loss.
Good luck to your husband, being in Depression is like living dead.
Finally, yes, the current theory on ECT is to have meds too, not to replace meds.
In my case the meds stopped working, now a fraction of the meds are working better than before the treatment.
If he doesn't like the treatments, he can just say no more ... just like taking meds or any other treatment choice.
I would look forward to a depression free husband ...