You are being very naive. A child should be kept OUT of the legal system by any means. If you think being in a juvenile detention facility is preferable to a therapeutic school, you are gravely mistaken. The teen is exposed to hardened criminals, gets worthless education and loses all hope for higher level post-high school education. You may try to claim this happens at a teen help school, but it is simply not even in the same league.
If I were Cowdude, I would not have posted this conversation with this woman because it makes him look like a stupid and immature little kid. She absolutely slaughtered him. I'm sure she expected him to put the text on this site, which is why she even engaged with him. Also, if you follow the thread, the reply of "That's right" referred to the fact that her son lost a year of his life, not to the fact that she "made him that way".
Cowdude, I assume you are slinking away with your tail between your legs. I gather you weren't on the debate team at school. Boy, did you get hammered.