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Re: The Who
« Reply #3060 on: September 11, 2008, 05:28:29 PM »
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Not using other countries as a benchmark for what should be considered acceptable I agree with. Using other countries human rights violations to justify our own is unacceptable.
I think we agree here.

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One is licensed, and in the case of police ambulences where you can be handcuffed, given authority by the court system as a police power, your escort services are usually unlicensed. In fact, if a youth is really such a danger to themselves or others that they need to be removed from home and need hospitalization or transported from a hospital to a residential facility, why use an escort service when you can get an ambulance for free?
It wont be free either way.  In many cases the TBS or RTCs are outside of the local community.  Ambulances typically will not transport people to the airport and onto airplanes etc.  Maybe after regulation takes hold and the treatment centers get more recognition from the insurance companies this may become possible, but right now the only option is escort services

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Setting aside what should be, (granting youth the rights to make the decisions you so easily dismiss) residential treatment is an open-ended jail sentence and should be treated with the same seriousness. If the youth really needs it let someone who doesn't have a conflict of interest in the matter decide.
I agree, I am an advocate to have the child’s therapist or school counsellor sign off on every placement.

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As for my faith in the courts to judge this matter, see the Marvin Lee Anderson case. Ultimately, until you accept that youth do have rights and that youth do have strengths even if they do have emotional or behavioral challenges, then you will continue to see them as deserving of whatever treatment they receive, as the Florida and Utah courts have so marvelously demonstrated. Restraint injuries in the name of treatment is unacceptable. I agree that this isn't the easiest of challenges to solve, but to accept things as they are is pathetic.
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The use of restraint should be well defined and accepted by all parties (legal ,therapeutic community etc.) If used outside of the requirements then the people should be reprimanded.

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Even a blind squirrel catches a nut every once in awhile (I should be nicer on this one, hey we're even for the "Won't Get Fooled Again" crack)
Okay, this pretty much cements my suspicion that you non-conformists are all the same.

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This hasn't necessarily been a critique about regulated vs. unregulated. Actually, most of the programs I had in mind when I wrote this are regulated. Even most of your beloved Aspen programs are regulated, well at least the ones in Utah are. This is a discussion about what practices are abusive. We seem to have a fundamental disagreement on this matter.
Yes, we do, and I particularly don’t agree with many of the ways abuse is defined here.

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http://www.tapartnership.org (Federal Government, not run by a bunch of Christian Scientists nor is it a fringe group)
Even when every home-based intervention has been tried, and an out-of-home placement is advised, usually by an entire team of professionals, not just an educational consultant and an admissions director, according to current best practices, the longest recommended adjustment period is maybe a week of physical separation and the parents transport the youth to the residence themselves. And a transition to weekend home passes within the first few weeks of placement.
Would not be the first time I disagreed with the government.  I think there should be exceptions.



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Of course, if you did all that, it would be so much harder to convince parents that they were doing the right thing when their youth told them how horrible they were being treated, and then you would have less youth that you could work with.
You could not effectively change a persons behavior in a week or two.  Behavior modification is a long process.


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It's hard to know if you really believe all of this (I don't know how you could sleep at night if you didn't) or if you make enough money like the Lichfield's doing this that you don't have to worry about such things.
I don’t make any money off the industry with the exception of maybe some retirement investments that I may not be aware of.

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So going under the assumption that you actually believe this crap, which to be fair you are in good company believing in this crap, where did your beliefs about the appropriate treatment of adolescents come from?
Personal experience, reading,.... I have seen the results of not treating adolescents which is rarely discussed here.  I have seen them die and end up in jail ( the insane not so much), seen them end up on the streets because no one intervened or cared enough.  I have spoken with kids who wished they had more structure or were forced to finish highschool because they cant support their wife and kids or have struggled with substance abuse for so long the way out is almost impossible.

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As for your list, since the only abuse you identified was sexual misconduct, and I'm assuming you would add that the perp was convicted and wasn't dealt appropriately by the facility, then I suppose by your logic there are no confirmedly abusive facilities, only abusers and unfortunate incidents which can happen anywhere, anytime and aren't limited to residential programs. Of course, what about the programs that hire former abusers out of negligence or indifference, are they abusive?

As for a real list, ISAC, HEAL, and Teen Advocates USA each have comprehensive lists that you can see for yourself.

Yes, I do believe there are abusers who enjoy the power trip, but this has nothing to do with treatment centers or programs unless, like you mentioned, they knowingly hire them.  Then yes they would considered abusive in my opinion.



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Re: The Who
« Reply #3061 on: September 11, 2008, 05:37:43 PM »
I find this post quite disturbing and will have to reply later.
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« Reply #3062 on: September 11, 2008, 06:08:24 PM »
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I find this post quite disturbing and will have to reply later.

Ha,Ha, Frod you are a trip



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Re: The Who
« Reply #3063 on: September 11, 2008, 06:26:00 PM »
The 3 things he has accomplished are:

1.Widened the already massive divide between former program students and the TBS industry.

2. Sabotaged the opportunity for any alleged 'good program' to work together with 'surviovrs' of bad programs to 'truly' bring resolve to the long term negative effects of the TBS industry.

If any entity in the TBS industry had 1/2 a brain or an ounce of character they'd make genuine efforts to  institute a 'good neighbor' policy and clean up their siblings' disasters.

They don't.

3. Proven the TBS industry doesn't give a fuck about the long term. You'll never see any long term longitudinal studies created/funded by them. Aspen's got a few horseshit, 3 year, hocus pocus 'studies' mentioned on their website. You can be certain the marketing and sales team had full oversight of that project. Imagine the amount of findings that got shitcanned in that exercise in alchemy. Talk about a rigged election.
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Re: The Who
« Reply #3064 on: September 11, 2008, 06:41:24 PM »
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LOOK:  You spelled it "Quadraphenia", not Quadrophenia, which I pointed out.  You're an idiot.  Do you always have such a problem with reading comprehension, or is it selective?  No wonder you can't name any non-abusive programs.

Why do you post here at all, given your ignorance of the industry?  Of everything?

You used 4 capitol letters in the word “LOOK” which should have been written “Look”.

You placed a comma after “Quadraphenia”.  It should have been written: Quadraphenia" not Quadrophenia, which I pointed out.

When using italics I would also suggest you place it on the emphasis and should have italicised Quadraphenia",not Quadrophenia, which I pointed out.” To better emphasize your point.

You placed a question mark after “Or everything” as if it was a question.  I would also like to point out that “Or everything” is not a complete sentence.
 
If you are going to criticize someone you should at least work on your grammer. Did I say that correctly?

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« Reply #3065 on: September 11, 2008, 07:16:28 PM »
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The 3 things he has accomplished are:

1.Widened the already massive divide between former program students and the TBS industry.
There is only a divide with the students who didn’t do well.

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2. Sabotaged the opportunity for any alleged 'good program' to work together with 'surviovrs' of bad programs to 'truly' bring resolve to the long term negative effects of the TBS industry.
Dish, are you saying there are "good" programs?  Careful, there are many regulars watching tonight

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If any entity in the TBS industry had 1/2 a brain or an ounce of character they'd make genuine efforts to institute a 'good neighbor' policy and clean up their siblings' disasters.

They don't.
When Chrysler was going under Ford and GM never stepped forward to help with customer service.  Just isn’t typically done.

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3. Proven the TBS industry doesn't give a fuck about the long term. You'll never see any long term longitudinal studies created/funded by them. Aspen's got a few horseshit, 3 year, hocus pocus 'studies' mentioned on their website. You can be certain the marketing and sales team had full oversight of that project. Imagine the amount of findings that got shitcanned in that exercise in alchemy. Talk about a rigged election.
I disagree, I think they are very interested in the long term.  They would like to continuously improve their program so they can provide a better service and grow the business.  But, we should be realistic and be honest with ourselves about where the effort is being placed.  Once the check clears the focus moves to the next potential customer and how to best market their program.  This is true for every successful industry.  Survivors (past customers) are a poor investment because they only pass thru once and there is no profit in it.


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Re: The Who
« Reply #3066 on: September 11, 2008, 10:40:51 PM »
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Quote from: "Who is Dumb."

LOOK:  You spelled it "Quadraphenia", not Quadrophenia, which I pointed out.  You're an idiot.  Do you always have such a problem with reading comprehension, or is it selective?  No wonder you can't name any non-abusive programs.

Why do you post here at all, given your ignorance of the industry?  Of everything?

You used 4 capitol letters in the word “LOOK” which should have been written “Look”.

You placed a comma after “Quadraphenia”.  It should have been written: Quadraphenia" not Quadrophenia, which I pointed out.

When using italics I would also suggest you place it on the emphasis and should have italicised Quadraphenia",not Quadrophenia, which I pointed out.” To better emphasize your point.

You placed a question mark after “Or everything” as if it was a question.  I would also like to point out that “Or everything” is not a complete sentence.
 
If you are going to criticize someone you should at least work on your grammer. Did I say that correctly?

Sorry I should stop.......



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You are a cunt.  Did I say that correctly?
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Re: The Who
« Reply #3067 on: September 11, 2008, 10:49:42 PM »
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Quote from: "Who is Dumb."

LOOK:  You spelled it "Quadraphenia", not Quadrophenia, which I pointed out.  You're an idiot.  Do you always have such a problem with reading comprehension, or is it selective?  No wonder you can't name any non-abusive programs.

Why do you post here at all, given your ignorance of the industry?  Of everything?


You placed a question mark after “Or everything” as if it was a question.  I would also like to point out that “Or everything” is not a complete sentence.
 
If you are going to criticize someone you should at least work on your grammer. Did I say that correctly?

Sorry I should stop.......



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You need to pay more attention when you read.  The original post has "Of everything?" and not "or anything?".  The italicized Quadrophenia is correct since it is the name of the album.  "Quadraphenia" was your misspelling and means nothing.  If you are going to criticize someone at least make sure you know what you are talking about.

You have to stop, chunkhead, you are a clueless fuck.  It is interesting to see you get pissed and bitchy.
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Re: The Who
« Reply #3068 on: September 11, 2008, 11:00:46 PM »
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The original post has "Of everything?" and not "or anything?".

Ha,Ha,Ha,  you did it again.  "Of everything?" is not a sentence and neither is "Or anything?"
Cant believe you missed it twice!!  You were so focused on Quadrophenia and why you screwed up the italic that you reposted your mistake....

Oh, no the spelling Nazi is back!!!  or is it.... "Oh no!!!  The spelling Nazi is back!!!  Ha,Ha,Ha



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Re: The Who
« Reply #3069 on: September 11, 2008, 11:08:35 PM »
Where's your list of non-abusive programs, cunt?  Ha, ha, ha.
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« Reply #3070 on: September 11, 2008, 11:57:54 PM »
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Where's your list of non-abusive programs, cunt?  Ha, ha, ha.
You are not a very nice person
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« Reply #3071 on: September 12, 2008, 03:11:41 AM »
Hey Who,

I'm a little new here and I have no idea what the big fuss is over this thread. It is one of the longest threads here. (I couldn't imagine going over the entire content of it.) I mean no offense here, in fact I am just curious. I have noticed a trend and, if I am correct, you have a particular skill in running a conversation in circles. Is this all a game? I don't know if you don't want to expose this about yourself but maybe you just want to be found out. If it is true I applaude you! It is truly brilliant. An expose on the nature of man. Thank you.
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Re: The Who
« Reply #3072 on: September 12, 2008, 05:57:19 AM »
Awake

You're correct. It's much to do about absolutely nothing. It's a ridiculous game.

The who is either an Aspen employee, a psychotic parent or a fictional character created by a Fornits regular to generate traffic.
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Re: The Who
« Reply #3073 on: September 12, 2008, 06:40:13 AM »
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Awake

The who is either an Aspen employee, a psychotic parent or a fictional character created by a Fornits regular to generate traffic.

Inclusive or, I presume.
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Re: The Who
« Reply #3074 on: September 12, 2008, 06:40:41 AM »
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you have a particular skill in running a conversation in circles.

Very, very, perceptive.  It takes some people a long time to figure exactly what his M.O. is (at least it took me some time).  I used to think it was just propaganda best dealt with by responding to it.  Then I ended up repeating myself again and again, responding to the same crap over and over again.  I eventually came to the conclusion his secondary (if not primary) purpose was to tire people out by running them in circles.  Only real way to deal with it (for me at least) is to completely ignore him.  I've run around in circles before, and frankly, I got a little sick of playing his game.

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Is this all a game?

I'm pretty sure it's professional for him, as well as personal.  He has given clues, but I won't waste my time digging them up (he does slip up, though).  If you hang around long enough, and read enough of his shit, it become crystal clear that he isn't "just a parent"...  and why would anybody do what he does if he wasn't?  If he was an honest man out to seek the truth, he wouldn't be running people around in circles like he does.  So that rules out the humanitarian / seeker of truth possibility.  I can't think of any other motivation than financial for him.

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I don't know if you don't want to expose this about yourself but maybe you just want to be found out. If it is true I applaude you! It is truly brilliant. An expose on the nature of man. Thank you.

Nature of man?  Not sure i quite buy that.  Nature of an abnormal man without a conscience...  That I buy.
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